when does it end?

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by lucgreek

Obviously the chapter is in the wrong, but I don't get the harshness towards the OP. If his chapter told him nothing about the national organization or told pledges to not contact it (I know, reading into things here), I don't really blame the OP.

We're all reading into it. And I don't see where anyone is being harsh.

He just wanted to know when this unofficial process will end so he will not get cut. He's not complaining about being hazed and looking for an official solution to the issue.

[lucgreek]

I didn't say anyone was rude, I said harsh.

Edit: OP probably doesn't know he's being hazed or that it is an unofficial process. Many chapters will throw national organization rules out the door and do things how they've always done, because that's what they've always done. It's easy for us to say, "duh why don't you contact your HQ?" because we've all been taught that. If the OP was taught correctly, he would know what's happening to him is not allowed. That already implies that something going on is not right (especially since it's mid-way through March).

Saying that the OP sucks for coming here, in my opinion, is a bit of a harsh comment to him.

Again, I could be completely reading into this too much.

[knight_shadow]

Originally Posted by lucgreek

I didn't say anyone was rude, I said harsh.

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No one was harsh.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by lucgreek

I didn't say anyone was rude, I said harsh.

LOL.

I see it as honest. Usernames can handle it.