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09-16-2008, 10:59 AM
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He IS going to undermine your chances, by the way.
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09-16-2008, 11:01 AM
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Originally Posted by Senusret I
He IS going to undermine your chances, by the way.
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Why do you say that?
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09-16-2008, 11:03 AM
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So he can be proven right. He's already affecting your chances by distracting you.
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09-16-2008, 11:17 AM
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09-16-2008, 12:48 PM
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Originally Posted by Senusret I
He IS going to undermine your chances, by the way.
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SOOO TRUE!!!!!
what better way to hurt you like you "hurt" him than to completely screw your chances of getting on board with the sorority...and word spreads fast. if you have a crazy man clinging to you, nobody is going to want you in their org. its too much drama!
and who in a sorority/fraternity is telling him you wont be able to spend time with him? that is a crock of sh*t if you ask me...
HE IS IN YOUR HEAD... the worst place of all for him to be...clear your mind fast...
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09-16-2008, 01:31 PM
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I'm starting to wonder if the OP is even for real. It seems like she's getting off on coming back here and talking about him and making excuses for him. Notice which posts she responds to and which she ignores. If this is for real, get your ass off the internet and deal with it or see a counselor or something.
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09-16-2008, 02:18 PM
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Hmmmm....I wondered that too.
Though her behavior might just be indicative of why she has stayed with him for so long.
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09-16-2008, 02:58 PM
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OTW--Interesting that one of the AKA's platforms is "mental/emotional health"...
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Interesting. I did not know that! You learn something new on GC every day.
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Originally Posted by kddani
I'm starting to wonder if the OP is even for real. It seems like she's getting off on coming back here and talking about him and making excuses for him. Notice which posts she responds to and which she ignores. If this is for real, get your ass off the internet and deal with it or see a counselor or something.
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I wondered that too. She's quite the selective one when it comes to replies.
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09-16-2008, 03:10 PM
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well the true test will be if she posts in response to the accusations she is a figment of our imaginations lol!
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09-16-2008, 04:22 PM
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Clearly, you like the drama. You like the fact that he wants you *all to himself* and starts lots of fights. Is he your first serious boyfriend? You probably think this is what it's supposed to be like. Listen, just because he pays more attention to you than your friends' boyfriends who are actually well-adjusted and have lives, that doesn't mean that he's a good boyfriend.
Either put up (break up with him, cut off all contact, and become a better student/pledge/whatever) or shut up (leave us alone, because few of us care now). No sorority will want a weak woman.
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09-16-2008, 04:22 PM
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Rare Treasure,
It is time to end this discussion on this board and transition into a new life and universe...
PM me if you want to know more.
Dr. AKA_Monet
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09-16-2008, 09:58 PM
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Originally Posted by RareTreasure
If I am given the opportunity to join...then i will be taking it. I am going to do it, and I am not going to back down......but I want him to support me. All i want out of him right now is to get over all that he has in his head (good or bad) and support me.
So joining in not in question....
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When a man truly loves you, you don't have to beg for support. Support is unconditional...this is what good looks like:
"Baby girl, I'm not really feeling this sorority thing and I am afraid that its going to mess up our thing. But if you really want to do it, I'll get you a nice gift. Come see me first when you cross."
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09-17-2008, 04:13 PM
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So basically what you all are saying is that I'm weak now. I'm trying to give you all his side so you all wouldn't just be giving me advise hearing only one half. But I see if you all think I'm weak and so does he. He's not my 1st serious relationship, I'm not a figment of your imaginations. I'm not getting off on coming back here and talking about him and making excuses for him. I was letting you all know what he says to all of this so you all wouldn't just be judging from one side of the story. And thank all of you that understand.....and all that don't, well, thanks any way.
I guess I shouldnt have posted it any way...I just seeked other womens opinion thats all.
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09-17-2008, 04:20 PM
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ps...I'm not weak.............and I didnt reply until now because I have 3 jobs and I am a full time student.
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09-17-2008, 04:21 PM
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Originally Posted by RareTreasure
ps...I'm not weak.............and I didnt reply until now because I have 3 jobs and I am a full time student.
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How will you have time for a sorority?
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