Welcome to GreekChat!
You sound like you have many interesting stories to share about Greek Life.
You will find it very helpful to go to
this thread in the Delta Sigma Theta forum and introduce yourself. Without that introduction, most of us will find you suspicious. It's not personal, trust me.

We just have problems with people saying that they are members, but it's not necessarily true.
As an Alpha who is only five years old in greek life, I'm looking forward to seeing a seasoned Greek around the boards!
(In fact, one of the Ques who used to frequent this board is actually from Xi Psi!)