Pre-Marital Sex is...

Jamal5000 · #1 03-04-2002, 12:55 AM

....wrong or right in your opinion?

Why or why not?

Jamal5000

FuturePhD · #2 03-04-2002, 09:05 AM

..is wrong in my personal opinion. As a Christian, I take all aspects of my spirituality seriously. I believe that God created sex as something to be shared within the bonds of marriage. I especially feel this way now because I didn't start off believing that, I lost my virginity early and had more than 1 (or 2 or 3) sexual partners. I believed as a lot of Christians do, that I can get by with having sex with someone I really care about, or intend to marry, or that God really wouldn't care about me having sex because I wasn't on drugs or killing anybody. I came up with every excuse I could think of. I've been celibate (no sexual activity) for 3.5 years, and while it's been difficult, I'm happy that I'm following what I believe is the will of God.

tickledpink · #3 03-04-2002, 02:16 PM

Wrong. Because it causes unnecessary hardships that God never intended for us to go through.

Professor · #4 03-04-2002, 05:36 PM

this is a really difficult question. those that take the religious perspective i can certainly respect. i can also understand those that don't have an issue. i guess for me the answer is a bigger picture. i know sin to be sin! it does not matter if it is sex, drinking, etc.! i believe that we are destined to sin and are caught up in a constant battle to overcome our desire of the flesh. i suggest that individuals develop a relationship with the Christ, accept what he allows and the savior will then give us the true desire of our hearts.

AKA2D '91 · #5 03-04-2002, 06:03 PM

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Wrong. Because it causes unnecessary hardships that God never intended for us to go through.

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tickledpink · #6 03-04-2002, 06:56 PM

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A penny for your thoughts Soror. You can PM me!

Professor · #7 03-05-2002, 09:38 AM

It's gettin colder in here -

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tickledpink · #8 03-05-2002, 12:33 PM

2'D exactly! I PM'd you back.

Professor · #9 03-05-2002, 01:15 PM

we're waiting - - -

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AKA2D '91 · #10 03-05-2002, 06:13 PM

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we're waiting - - -

STILL No Comment!

novella000 · #11 03-05-2002, 07:36 PM

weeeeell... it got me in trouble. about 18-20 years of it... so it's not a good thing. even though God has a way of making the not-so-good into a blessing. i wouldn't recommend it. but God does know how to turn things around. is that answer ambiguous enough for everyone?

prettyone · #12 03-05-2002, 09:04 PM

I believe it is wrong... It is also rare to find a mate who has waited to have sex until they are married. It seems to me that it has become the norm not to wait, it is almost shocking for people to see someone who has.

.... I know it is morally wrong, but it is something few people can say they haven't done. So I pose this question, if you saved yourself for your wife or husband would you be disappointed if they hadn't done the same?

OneOneTwo · #13 03-05-2002, 09:24 PM

it's wrong, but I'm going to be BRAVE enough to say

1. I tried it...
2. I liked it...
3. I'd probably do it again, although right now it's been a long time since the last time.

But as always, I can't wait until I meet that ONE I was destined to be with.

Word... yep.

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AKA2D '91 · #14 03-05-2002, 10:52 PM

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Originally posted by OneOneTwo
it's wrong, but I'm going to be BRAVE enough to say

1. I tried it...
2. I liked it...
3. I'd probably do it again, although right now it's been a long time since the last time.

But as always, I can't wait until I meet that ONE I was destined to be with.

Word... yep.

112

The BEST answer yet!

LMAO!

tickledpink · #15 03-06-2002, 04:30 AM

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I believe it is wrong... It is also rare to find a mate who has waited to have sex until they are married. It seems to me that it has become the norm not to wait, it is almost shocking for people to see someone who has..... I know it is morally wrong, but it is something few people can say they haven't done. So I pose this question, if you saved yourself for your wife or husband would you be disappointed if they hadn't done the same?

Not with the way society is today....

A little off the subject.... but in the same ballpark.... I was watching Elimidate today. For those that haven't seen it, it's a show where a person goes on a date with 4 people at the same time, but during the date, they gradually eliminate people. This guy, although he was asking some very provocative questions, chose the girl that said she was a virgin. His reasoning: he said he just felt a chemistry between them - and that was w/o her making statements about what she would do to him, etc.