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[KAY10]

Originally Posted by AGDee

Yeah. First time I thought I had just picked the wrong guy. Second time, I realized that 1) I'm not good at picking guys and 2) I'm really too independent to be married. But, no regrets.. I got two great kids out of the second marriage.

LOL. Nothing wrong with that. Some of us end up with the wrong people. Kids are always a blessing though.

[Jimmy Choo]

Originally Posted by KAY10

What would you be regretting? This is GC. I don't care what kinds of questions you ask me. To me, a woman that does the freak nasty had to have learned it from someone or several men. All the girls I've been with have been freaks and they had a permiscuous past. I really am not interested in women like that. I agree with you, yes it's important to keep sex interesting, and I'm not saying I'm dull, but there are certain things I won't do that are nasty to me, and women that are freaky didn't just make it up they learned it through experience, and I refuse to waste my time with women like this. I prefer more innocent women. In an earlier post a Delta made a comment about me being scared. If I were scared I wouldn't have been with the freaks I was with, I just don't have any interest in ladies like that.

What I meant by regret was that this thread was going along pretty well and asking a loaded question like that can sometimes derail a perfectly good thread! I hope that makes a little bit more sense....

But in all honesty, by saying that women who are freaky have been promiscious is a bit too general. Someone can have had a lot of "fun" and only have been with 2 or 3 guys. All of those could also be long-term relationships also.
And you still didn't really define "freak".

[OOhsoflyDELTA#9]

Originally Posted by KAY10

What would you be regretting? This is GC. I don't care what kinds of questions you ask me. To me, a woman that does the freak nasty had to have learned it from someone or several men. All the girls I've been with have been freaks and they had a permiscuous past. I really am not interested in women like that. I agree with you, yes it's important to keep sex interesting, and I'm not saying I'm dull, but there are certain things I won't do that are nasty to me, and women that are freaky didn't just make it up they learned it through experience, and I refuse to waste my time with women like this. I prefer more innocent women. In an earlier post a Delta made a comment about me being scared. If I were scared I wouldn't have been with the freaks I was with, I just don't have any interest in ladies like that.

LMAO
there are so many things I wanna ask and say but I'll leave it alone for the most part...KAY10...you're making really broad generalizations about "ladies like that" I have a friend who stayed a virgin all thru college...she had a porn collection that would put most men to shame...she always joked that she was going to be ready when the time came...so I'm guessing she probably was "pretty freaky" during her initial experiences because of this....don't get me wrong deal with who you want but don't get caught up in the hype of "innocent women"...women (and men too) have been known to re-create their past.......luv ya like a play cousin KAY10

[OOhsoflyDELTA#9]

Originally Posted by ecupidelta

But in all honesty, by saying that women who are freaky have been promiscious is a bit too general. Someone can have had a lot of "fun" and only have been with 2 or 3 guys. All of those could also be long-term relationships also.
And you still didn't really define "freak".

ecupidelta, we are
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I'm waiting on his definition too....

[Jimmy Choo]

Originally Posted by OOhsoflyDELTA#9

ecupidelta, we are
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I'm waiting on his definition too....

LOL

At this point I just really want to know. Morbid curiousity almost!

And the story you told about your friend, I knew a lot of people like that. They may not have had a porno collection but they sure read a lot of Cosmo and Maxim. They wanted to be "ready".

[KAY10]

Originally Posted by OOhsoflyDELTA#9

ecupidelta, we are
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I'm waiting on his definition too....

LOL you two are silly. OhhsoflyDelta#9 and ecupidelta you two made some valid points about your friends looking at and reading sex magazines, which I'm sure happens. Also ecupidelta you don't have to regret asking me questions. I won't get off the subject. It doesn't bother me.

Ladies, I was trying not to get graphic with the answer to your question but I don't really have a choice if I wanna answer your question right. To me a freak is a woman who after meeting her and knowing her for about a month she has oral sex with a guy she had been seeing for that time period. Actually a month is still way too early. I looked this word up in the dictionary b/c I didn't know how to spell it and I didn't see it in there but sadamizing (wrong spelling I'm sure). No offense to women that like this but a woman that likes to be sadamized and then turn around and has oral sex with the dude right after. That's some freaky sh.. just sadamizing period to me is just nasty and it's something I would never do. For those of you who have and like it, more power to ya. Other examples include licking someones asshole, women who like men to get violent with them in bed, whips and chains ect......not me. 3 somes are a definite no, no for me too. To me sex is for one man and one woman, anything more than that I consider freaky and nasty. I don't care if it was done presently or in the past. So in other words if I meet a woman and I find out she did that nasty stuff in her past she won't hear from anymore. If I'm with a woman I wouldn't mind trying new things with her together. If she already has done some of the freaky things that I will do, then to me I see her as the been there done that type of freak. Now lets say she was like your friend and never had sex before. Well...she could be lying. How do I know that? I remember when Taco Bell employees wouldn't use gloves to make customers food. I stopped eating there because these people could have done the freak nasty before coming to work. Ya never know. That's another thread though.

When I was in undergrad I knew of a girl in XYZ sorority who went into the football dorm and had oral sex with one guy while one guy was hittin' it from the back. Now she's married with kids. Sit and think about that for a minute. There is no way I would marry and have kids with someone like that b/c I would always be thinking that my childs mom was a freak. C'mon gimmie a break. This is just one example of a freak to me and my definition.

Like your friends in college, when I was in undergrad, from my freshman year until my junior year, I had never had sex, based on my morals, but I love women too much so I got caught up. Well, when I was a pledgee my sophomore year, the Nupes found out about it. Well of course they teased me about it as a pledgee and when I made it into the frat they would tease me about it, but then it was all fun and games. Kappa Alpha Psi was the most (probably still is) popular frat on campus so at the time my (never) sex life got across campus very fast. When that happend I felt like every woman on campus wanted to sleep with me. I was like damn, I can actually have my pick. At the time I was really young so I loved the attention I was getting. There wasn't a sorority party or frat party that I could go to without some babes wanting to sleep with me. At the time I was the committed type and wanted a long term relationship. Well everyone pretty much knows the reputation of Kappa Alpha Psi the whole "Pretty Boy" player type. What?? a Nupe who had never slept with a babe. Not happnin'. Well, as time went on I had my share of women, but when it came down to a commitment all the women I had been with lied to me and told me things I wanted to hear just so I would get serious with them. Well, most of them were pretty decent women but they were freaks and that stuff is just not my style. The whole KAY player image, it's just not me. I like being a "Pretty Boy" though. Seriuosly though I love the whole "Achievement" aspect of KAY not the player image b/c I'm not a player. Did I answer your question? I added my college experience in case you wondered how I got to this point.

[Jimmy Choo]

Thank you for answering KAY10!
While we may have different outlooks I think it's safe to say that freak is pretty much where we draw the proverbeal "line in the sand". The comfort level, so to speak.

And BTW... still laughing about your Taco Bell comment.

[OOhsoflyDELTA#9]

KAY10....we will have to agree to disagree on this....thanks for the explanation though.....I see where you're coming from in your preference....just know that all freaks aren't bad girls a'ight....

[amycat412]

We're all entitled to our opinions, but IMO where KAY10s definition gets dangerous (and by dangerous I mean judgemental and double standard like) is when you get older. A woman does not have to be what you call a "freak" to be good/great/hot for it all the time if she's had a lot of experience simply by being in her 30s or older.

[BlessedOne04]

Although I understand your logic, in a way you are saying people cannot change and I don't agree that is true.

besides you never know what type of freak you may be looking for when you get married. lol

[Jimmy Choo]

Originally Posted by BlessedOne04

Although I understand your logic, in a way you are saying people cannot change and I don't agree that is true.

besides you never know what type of freak you may be looking for when you get married. lol

LOL... agreed!!
And also too, the past is the past. As long as my boyfriend was clean I didn't need to know about what he had done with other women nor did I want to know!!!
And for some reason this discussion is reminding me of the Will & Grace epsiode where Grace and nathan are adding up how many partners they've had and if more partners=more actual sex.

[KAY10]

Originally Posted by BlessedOne04

Although I understand your logic, in a way you are saying people cannot change and I don't agree that is true.

besides you never know what type of freak you may be looking for when you get married. lol

I'm not getting married.

[KAY10]

Originally Posted by OOhsoflyDELTA#9

KAY10....we will have to agree to disagree on this....thanks for the explanation though.....I see where you're coming from in your preference....just know that all freaks aren't bad girls a'ight....

No, not all freaks are bad girls they're just not good for me.

[mulattogyrl]

Originally Posted by ecupidelta

But in all honesty, by saying that women who are freaky have been promiscious is a bit too general. Someone can have had a lot of "fun" and only have been with 2 or 3 guys. All of those could also be long-term relationships also.
And you still didn't really define "freak".

That's a good point though. If you've been with someone for a few years, most likely you've experimented and tried a few new things. It doesn't necessarily mean that the girl has slept around.

Yes, and what is 'freaky' to you?

[Jimmy Choo]

Originally Posted by mulattogyrl

That's a good point though. If you've been with someone for a few years, most likely you've experimented and tried a few new things. It doesn't necessarily mean that the girl has slept around.

Yes, and what is 'freaky' to you?

I guess I deserve that question since I threw it out there to begin with.
Freaky to me would be the way far out there stuff. And I mean stuff that's in the DSM-IV as a disorder!! And the really violent stuff, like the whips and chains stuff. And there is a whole CSI episode on "furries". That's freaky to me. Other than that.... there are things I wouldn't do just because it's not my cup of tea, but it's not per se freaky. It's just outside of my comfort zone.