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Old 07-18-2006, 10:30 AM
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LOL it's ok, again this topic is going nowhere else...

Yeah there are affirmations, and you do often swear BY something, but I don't think it requires God to make it mean anything...

Nor is an "affirmation" less valid.

I don't have my notary book for the exact wording, but when I do an oath for someone (if they are swearing that they personally know someone or know someone's signature) there are two different ones. One is for a theist who believes in swearing to (or by) God, and there's another for Athiests and those who choose not to swear by God.
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Old 07-18-2006, 10:33 AM
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Right, but for other things... you can say " I SWEAR TO GOD" and not mean it just as easily as I can say.. "I SWEAR IT'S TRUE" and mean it. Even though I didn't call on a higher power.

I just don't like the assertion that you have to a) believe in God and b)swear by him for it to count...
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Old 07-18-2006, 10:40 AM
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Yeah there are affirmations, and you do often swear BY something, but I don't think it requires God to make it mean anything...

Nor is an "affirmation" less valid.
Right -- legally, both are valid and binding (in the sense of being made under penalty of perjury). The point is an affirmation is not an oath. An oath, by definition, is a solemn promise coupled with "an appeal to a sacred or venerated object, in evidence of the serious and reverent state of mind of the party, or with an invocation to a supreme being to witness the words of the party, and to visit him with punishment if they be false." (I really can't remember the last time I quoted Black's Law Dictionary on GreekChat.) No swearing by a sacred object ("my mother's grave") or invoking of a supreme being, no oath as traditionally defined.

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Old 07-18-2006, 10:49 AM
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So, assuming I'm an atheist, if I swear by, i don't know.. Science.. will you count that as sacred to me?

Or if I'm pagan of some sort and swear by my holy bamboo stick of righteousness...

In my mind the intent of the person matters more than what they swear by.

/Wishes I had a bamboo stick of righteousness..
//Only have a popsicle stick of attitude..
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Old 07-18-2006, 11:18 AM
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The bamboo stick of righteousness. I love it! I gotta get me one of those.

If you are swearing by something sacred to you, that is what matters in swearing an oath, since that is evidence of the seriousness and reverence with which you make your solemn promise. (Harking back to Tom Earp's comments, think of the Boy Scout Oath, which is made "On my honor.")

Think of wacko Shane in the last season of Survivor. He kept swearing by his son -- appropriate (in a creepy sort of way) because his son was so important to him. But he asked others to swear on his son, too, in essence asking others to make a meaningless oath because his son was just another kid to them. What was sacred to him, and therefore adequate to demonstrate the seriouness with which he would take his promise, was not the same as what was sacred to others.

Or think of Lord of the Rings -- when Frodo and Sam need to to extract a promise from Gollum that he will not harm them, Frodo asks Gollum "On what will you swear?" (I.e., how can you assure us that we can trust you?) Gollum swears on the Ring, which Frodo knows is everything to Gollum. Frodo knows that swearing by the Ring will bind Gollum's conscience.

Swearing an oath and making an affirmation are both forms a solemn promises. The difference is in the form, not the effect.
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Old 07-18-2006, 11:20 AM
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Juliet: O, swear not by the moon, the inconstant moon, who monthly changes in her circled orb, lest that thy love prove likewise variable.
Romeo: What shall I swear by?
Juliet: Do not swear at all. Or, if thou wilt, swear by the gracious self which is the god of my idolatry, and I'll believe thee.


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Old 07-18-2006, 11:32 AM
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ROMEO
If my heart's dear love--

JULIET
Well, do not swear: although I joy in thee,
I have no joy of this contract to-night:
It is too rash, too unadvised, too sudden;
Too like the lightning, which doth cease to be
Ere one can say 'It lightens.' Sweet, good night!
This bud of love, by summer's ripening breath,
May prove a beauteous flower when next we meet.
Good night, good night! as sweet repose and rest
Come to thy heart as that within my breast!

ROMEO
O, wilt thou leave me so unsatisfied?

JULIET
What satisfaction canst thou have to-night?

ROMEO
The exchange of thy love's faithful vow for mine.
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Old 07-18-2006, 11:35 AM
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I totally agree with you, it's Liberal_South who would disagree I think...
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Old 07-18-2006, 12:58 PM
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I totally agree with you, it's Liberal_South who would disagree I think...
Well, as you so aptly pointed out, unless Liberal _South is familiar with the rituals of GLOs other than his own, I doubt he knows whether members of other GLOs actually take an oath to God or not.

I will try not to lose any sleep tonight.
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Old 07-18-2006, 01:10 PM
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Well, as you so aptly pointed out, unless Liberal _South is familiar with the rituals of GLOs other than his own, I doubt he knows whether members of other GLOs actually take an oath to God or not.

I will try not to lose any sleep tonight.
lol Me too

Shoot now we need another thread derailment topic..
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Old 07-18-2006, 01:12 PM
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lol Me too

Shoot now we need another thread derailment topic..
We can always go with the R&J theme above.


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Old 07-18-2006, 01:23 PM
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the love I bear thee can afford no better term than this.....THOU ART A VILLIAN!!!
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Old 07-18-2006, 01:24 PM
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I defy you stars!!
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Old 07-18-2006, 02:37 PM
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I was in Honors English, and we read Julius Caesar instead...


I feel left out.

As much as an atheist must feel left out from Liberal_South's fraternity
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Old 07-18-2006, 02:43 PM
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I was in Honors English, and we read Julius Caesar instead...

I feel left out.
BRUTUS
Give me your hands all over, one by one.

CASSIUS
And let us swear our resolution.

BRUTUS
No, not an oath: if not the face of men,
The sufferance of our souls, the time's abuse,--
If these be motives weak, break off betimes,
And every man hence to his idle bed;
So let high-sighted tyranny range on,
Till each man drop by lottery. But if these,
As I am sure they do, bear fire enough
To kindle cowards and to steel with valour
The melting spirits of women, then, countrymen,
What need we any spur but our own cause,
To prick us to redress? what other bond
Than secret Romans, that have spoke the word,
And will not palter? and what other oath
Than honesty to honesty engaged,
That this shall be, or we will fall for it?
Swear priests and cowards and men cautelous,
Old feeble carrions and such suffering souls
That welcome wrongs; unto bad causes swear
Such creatures as men doubt; but do not stain
The even virtue of our enterprise,
Nor the insuppressive mettle of our spirits,
To think that or our cause or our performance
Did need an oath; when every drop of blood
That every Roman bears, and nobly bears,
Is guilty of a several bastardy,
If he do break the smallest particle
Of any promise that hath pass'd from him.


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