what do you do....

josh8o · #1 06-21-2004, 10:45 PM

...when you totally are head over heals for someone, and you have been dating for a month or so, and you both have expressed that there is interest...but you want to call them like every minute, and they have a busy life and you dont want a million voicemails to be left, or your number to show up on their caller id missed calls list?

...when you wear your heart on your sleve too much and you fall way too fast?

yo, i seriously need some help here, or at least something to make me stop thinking about it...

James · #2 06-21-2004, 10:46 PM

I would destress because I would be obsessing.

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Originally posted by josh8o
...when you totally are head over heals for someone, and you have been dating for a month or so, and you both have expressed that there is interest...but you want to call them like every minute, and they have a busy life and you dont want a million voicemails to be left, or your number to show up on their caller id missed calls list?

...when you wear your heart on your sleve too much and you fall way too fast?

yo, i seriously need some help here, or at least something to make me stop thinking about it...

ADPiShannan · #3 06-21-2004, 11:12 PM

Dont become a stalker lol but the feeling definately happens. You hate to be away and love to be with them every min and think of them all the time when you arent.

Enjoy it.... Make the most of it. Dont become obsessed so she can see it or it may freak her out unless she is being the same as you, but def show her how you feel about her. Its good to think about someone when you arent together and its very sweet too....

Enjoy this awesome time in a relationship...

winneythepooh7 · #4 06-21-2004, 11:19 PM

enjoy it. because as time goes on this honeymoon phase ends. it is good to always keep some of this feeling that you have now in your relationship as time goes by. it's wierd to hear a guy feeling like this. i usually see girls becoming like this especially with guys who become easily freaked out and end up ditching the girl because of this behavior.

BobbyTheDon · #5 06-21-2004, 11:40 PM

hey bro,

i know how you feel. i've once had that feeling. lost it. now i think i am havin it with this one girl again...its a great feeling but a littel weird because you find yourself doing weird and not acting yourself. i guess thats the weird thing about love. it takes over you.

channel all your energy into sexual energy when around her and you'll make the most passionate love ever.

josh8o · #6 06-21-2004, 11:55 PM

it's just tripping me out and so out of character for the "too good, on the go josh" that everyone knows.

James · #7 06-22-2004, 01:04 AM

The honeymoon phase doesn't end for every relationship . . . people should leave when it does end

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Originally posted by winneythepooh7
enjoy it. because as time goes on this honeymoon phase ends. it is good to always keep some of this feeling that you have now in your relationship as time goes by. it's wierd to hear a guy feeling like this. i usually see girls becoming like this especially with guys who become easily freaked out and end up ditching the girl because of this behavior.

valkyrie · #8 06-22-2004, 01:53 AM

Do you go running or anything like that? I find it to be a great way to get my mind off of things.

Other than that -- what everybody else said -- enjoy it!

steelepike · #9 06-22-2004, 02:41 AM

i am where you are in a way, maybe not the busy life stuff but the other stuff. hold on to it man and make it last. and keep your head when it comes to making desiscions

smiley21 · #10 06-22-2004, 07:27 AM

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Originally posted by josh8o
it's just tripping me out and so out of character for the "too good, on the go josh" that everyone knows.

awwww. i am a sucker for these things. my boyfriend and i went through this for the longest time. enjoy it while you can cause you will miss it later. it is one of those times when your S.O. can do no wrong.

it is a great part of life that we get to experience. just take a deep breath and be happy. it you really have to, leave a few voice mails, cause you miss her. after awhile, the voicemails will go down to one a day. but if not that is okay. my boyfriend still can leave me up five messages in a one hour period. and we have been dating for three years. he is not being possessive, just silly cause they are some goofy messages. so you are not alone!!

winneythepooh7 · #11 06-22-2004, 08:17 AM

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Originally posted by James
The honeymoon phase doesn't end for every relationship . . . people should leave when it does end

Maybe I truly haven't experienced the happiest blissful JAMES love yet LOL

sororitygirl2 · #12 06-22-2004, 09:57 PM

Enjoy it... to an extent. If she is not reciprocating the over-zealous behavior, you might freak her out. Maybe you should develop some outside interests of your own, so when she is busy with her things, you are busy with yours. It's important to be your own person, even if you are in a happy new relationship.

starang21 · #13 06-22-2004, 11:09 PM

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Originally posted by josh8o
...when you totally are head over heals for someone, and you have been dating for a month or so, and you both have expressed that there is interest...but you want to call them like every minute, and they have a busy life and you dont want a million voicemails to be left, or your number to show up on their caller id missed calls list?

...when you wear your heart on your sleve too much and you fall way too fast?

yo, i seriously need some help here, or at least something to make me stop thinking about it...

walk down sorority row. that'll always open up your perspective.

AOII_LB93 · #14 06-24-2004, 08:31 PM

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Originally posted by starang21
walk down sorority row. that'll always open up your perspective.

HAHA! True though...