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Old 08-27-2008, 02:01 PM
megzamillion88 megzamillion88 is offline
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UNC - Chapel Hill Recruitment Story! :-)

Hi everyone!

Over the past month or so, I have become absolutely addicted to Greek Chat and I truly appreciate all of the helpful advice and stories that you have shared. So, to return the favor, I thought I'd share my experience as I prepare to go through rush this week.

Since, I have already given away my school on the "Who is rushing in Fall 2008/Spring 2009?" thread, I figured that it would be best to hold off on the details until after rush is over to avoid shooting myself in the foot, so to speak, or saying anything that could possibly hurt any chances that I may have.

I have taken to heart all of the advice that I have read in the stickied threads about PNMs, and am going into this experience with an open mind. I am a sophomore transfer and I know absolutely nothing regarding stereotypes or reputations about the chapters on campus (which I think is beneficial to keeping my options open). The school I went to last year was extremely tiny and did not offer Greek Life, so this is very much a new experience for me.

Last night was our Recruitment Kick-Off and I had a blast I enjoyed hearing a little bit about each sorority and their corresponding philanthropies. I was surprised to hear so much "tent talk" this early on in the game. So many girls seemed so sure about where they wanted to go (or didn't want to go) and immediately dismissed certain chapters based on hearsay. As I said earlier, I really want to go into this with an open mind. Every sorority has attributes that make them special, so I don't want to dismiss anyone without seeing for myself first.

Tonight, we meet with our recruitment groups to discuss further details that were not mentioned at the kick-off. I'm so nervous and excited for the process to begin! I promise to provide updates and will post later with those dreaded code names!

Finally, I will share the complete story after bid day! Thanks for reading!
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Old 08-27-2008, 02:27 PM
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Good luck ... it sounds like you have exactly the right attitute ...!!
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Old 08-27-2008, 02:30 PM
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Yay! A recruitment story by a well informed PNM! I love it! Good luck!
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Old 08-27-2008, 02:37 PM
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Ooooooo, and I am such a fan of UNC and the town of Chapel Hill! (Wish I was on Franklin Street right now.)

Can't wait.
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Old 08-27-2008, 02:42 PM
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Good to see a local story...not as close as NCSU is (my alma mater)... but still close to me! Good luck with recruitment!
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Old 08-27-2008, 04:10 PM
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Ohh, good luck!! I worked at UNC for 3 years, and one of the girls in our alum group is Asst Dean of Greek Life there-love love her!!

You will have a blast!!
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Old 08-27-2008, 06:25 PM
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Yea for a local story!!!! Best of luck!!!
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Old 08-28-2008, 06:43 PM
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Good luck! I'm glad you're well informed and I'm sure you'll have a wonderful time with recruitment, no matter the outcome!
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Old 08-28-2008, 07:12 PM
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We were in North Carolina twice for a sporting event. My husband and I drove around UNC. It is so beautiful. (I loved the old pharmacy on..I guess Franklin?). I was amazed at the size on one particular sorority. (not the girls the size of their house). We only saw one sorority house...but if they are all that big...all I can say is wow.
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Old 08-30-2008, 01:56 PM
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Yesterday was my first round of recruitment and I had an awesome time. Since I said earlier that I would hold off until the end to tell the entire story, I won't give any details away. But I will say that I had a very difficult time choosing who to rank as my bottom three. I do have two favorites so far and two that come in at a close 3rd and 4th, so we'll see how things pan out! Conversation flowed better than I thought it would with the exception of one awkward silence (in hindsight, I should have thought of a question to ask her in order to make it more comfortable.) I spoke with a few girls who pledged as sophomores which made me feel a little less nervous about what I had heard about the difficulties that sophomores face. Tomorrow is Skit Day and I'm very excited to see what the different houses have spent so long preparing for us.

I am writing my story in a Word document so that I can remember as many details as possible, and then I will post the different parts after September 4th! I hope you're as excited as I am for the outcome!!!
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Old 08-30-2008, 05:35 PM
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I <3 Recruitment Threads. Good luck!
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Old 08-31-2008, 06:13 PM
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Well, I just got back from the second round... all of my top 4 dropped me (as well as two others that I had liked), and I was left with my bottom 3 and one that I had ranked very low on my list yesterday (most people got these four today). I was very disappointed but tried to go in with an open mind to see if things improved without any success :-(

Maybe it's because I'm a sophomore transfer and don't have an established GPA at this school (although my GPA at my previous school was very high). I had recs to 5 houses, but only one of these asked me back. After the first round, I had my heart set on one in particular and I thought I hit it off really well with everyone I talked to (she asked me for my last name before I left and said that she hoped to see me at the next round).

My Rho Chi was very nice and encouraged me to continue on to the next day. We had to list our top 5, so I wrote down all 4 that I had (even though I really couldn't see myself anywhere). Hopefully things will get better. If not, I think I'll probably drop out. Do I have any other options then? Sorry for the rant... this is just very discouraging and I wish I hadn't put so much time and effort into researching chapters and recruitment advice and obtaining recs. :-(
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Old 08-31-2008, 06:29 PM
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My Rho Chi was very nice and encouraged me to continue on to the next day. We had to list our top 5, so I wrote down all 4 that I had (even though I really couldn't see myself anywhere). Hopefully things will get better. If not, I think I'll probably drop out. Do I have any other options then? Sorry for the rant... this is just very discouraging and I wish I hadn't put so much time and effort into researching chapters and recruitment advice and obtaining recs. :-(
Recruitment is a rough time.

If you do drop out, you are eligible for informal recruitment/COB, but I do not know if UNC-Chapel Hill has alot of opportunities for that.

Also keep in mind that if you were to drop out, you'd be a juinor next year and it would be more difficult for you to go through next year and get a bid.

I always encouage girls to stick it out at least until Preference because you never really know what you may see in one of those chapters that you didn't notice before.

I also think it's a good idea to stick it out just because you wouldn't want to wonder "what if I had." I hear alot of stories of women who drop out, then see all the new members and such having fun, and then they wish they would've stayed in recruitment and given the chapters they had left a chance.

It's your decision though, so best of luck with whatever you decide to do.
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Old 08-31-2008, 06:38 PM
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I'm not familiar with your campus so others will have to chime in on whether or not COB is an option. However, I just looked at the local websites for the sororities on your campus and I'm at a bit of a loss. They all look like great chapters.

I do hope you'll stick it out. I know Recruitment is difficult and painful and I'm sorry things haven't yet turned out the way you wanted. Keep in mind though that your perfect home could be right under your nose and you just haven't noticed it yet.

Another thing to consider is the fact that after Recruitment the sororities aren't exactly the same as they were before. They include the new pledge classes.

You mentioned that others had the same 4 chapters left. Take some time to look around at your fellow PNMs. You'll be spending most of your time with your pledge class. Have you made friends with other PNMs?

I wish you the best of luck!
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Old 08-31-2008, 10:29 PM
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Don't give up! Keep an open mind with the 4 chapters that are left. I hope it all works out for you in the end.
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