A 4th year exchange student in a sorority ?

Nolita · #1 12-06-2007, 10:35 PM

Hello,

I'm an Italian student who is applying to study at an American university next fall for the entire academic year, my choices are San Diego State, Cal State Northridge and Cal State Long Beach.
I'm really interested in joining a sorority there but I'll be applying as a senior staying for one year ( more if finances and my visa are on my side ) any way I'm wondering if I have my chances at being picked to join a sorority given the facts that :

- As for now, only staying for a year // Applying as a senior
- I'm not American
- I'm 22

But on the bright sides, I'm pretty social, a good student and I'm already involved at my current school

One of my friend ( non-Greek ) from Cali who told me that rush wasn't that competitive at CSULB and CSUN but that it was a pretty big deal at SDSU, anyone knows if it's true or not ?

I really appreciate your thoughts on the matter

, thanks in advance !

- Carlotta

violetpretty · #2 12-06-2007, 10:43 PM

My chapter actually had an exchange student come through this fall (informal). She said she was "just coming to see what it is all about" but it made me think "What if there was an exchange student who actually wanted to join?"

Normally, chapters wouldn't take someone who they know will only be around for a year. However, as an exchange student, you have something very unique to offer a chapter, which could be on your side. I have a friend who joined a chapter at CSU Northridge as a junior, so I don't think your age would work against you. I can't speak for the chapters at the schools to which you are applying, because I have no idea how they would feel about an exchange student, but I say give recruitment a try if it interests you, as long as you won't be crushed if it doesn't work out.

joliebelle · #3 12-06-2007, 10:49 PM

I don't know what rush is like at those schools specifically, but I know that there is a chapter here that has girls from overseas, and they fit right in with their respected sisterhoods! I think that any chapter would have a lot to learn from someone who isn't from the U.S

nittanyalum · #4 12-06-2007, 10:52 PM

I don't know about California schools either, but I think some chapters would think it pretty cool to have an exchange student, assuming you like them and they like you, of course. Getting a bid as a senior can be tougher depending on the campus, but again, that might be where the uniqueness of your student status might work in your favor. I say go through rush and see what happens, worst case scenario is that you don't get a bid, but at least you'll have had the experience of rush and won't always wonder "what if" if you don't try... good luck!!!

epchick · #5 12-06-2007, 11:15 PM

Does CSU-Northridge and CSU-Long Beach have anything called "open university" or an extension program? If they do....are you considered part of the extension or open university. At CSU-East Bay all the international exchange students are under what is called "open university" so that means you aren't fully enrolled in the college. And they were NOT allowed to rush. So i'd check if i was you to make sure your considered full enrolled in the school.

Benzgirl · #6 12-06-2007, 11:28 PM

I have known exchange students to go through recruitment and they were very well received. I would encourage you to contact the Greek Life office to find out more about it. They can answer the questions you might have if that school permits it.

We have some ladies on this board that are affiliated with San Diego State. Maybe they can jump in and provide some advise.

When I was in school, we had a girl from the UK. She wasn't an exchange student, but she pledged as a Sophomore. We loved her and several of our sisters went to visit her in Europe over the summer.

Nolita · #7 12-07-2007, 05:41 AM

Thank you all for your kind and quick replies ! I don't know how to quote several people into the same message so I'll go with this :

- VioletPretty : Which sorority did you friend join at CSUN if you don't mind me asking ? Is she still in or she graduated ? It's just because I'd like to know if the rush process is very competitive or not

- Epchick : Yes SDSU and CSUN have an extension school I dunno about CSULB but I'm not applying through those, I'd be attending classes just like regular American students, taking 12 units and stuff

I'm definitely gonna go through rush and if I don't get a bid I'll just see it as an experience. By the way, is anyone in the chat currently or previously enrolled at one of the 3 schools ( SDSU - CSUN - CSULB ) ??

KSUViolet06 · #8 12-07-2007, 01:19 PM

I'm originally from CA and as far as I know, CSUN & CSULB aren't competitive. SDSU is more competitive now than it has been in the past. I believe quota last year was in the high 60's and there were a ton of girls going through.

sigmaK619 · #9 12-08-2007, 12:23 AM

I am an SDSU Sorority Alumna

Correction: last year quota was in the mid eighties for SDSU. I know that my sorority would have been open to an exchange student, however, Sigma Kappa closed in April of last year.

If you are really interested in joining a sorority, the Fraternity and Sorority Director may allow for you to join and for you not to count towards quota. There is always COB'ing, which tends to be less competitve.

Here is the link for SDSU Greek Life, I say definitely look into it. Joining a sorority is a great experience!!

http://www.sa.sdsu.edu/cfsl/

twotimestalia · #10 12-08-2007, 01:04 AM

WOW! I just realized a lot of sorority's are only in the USA. Glad mine's not one of them.

Nolita · #11 12-08-2007, 03:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sigmaK619

I am an SDSU Sorority Alumna

Correction: last year quota was in the mid eighties for SDSU.

SDSU is extremely competitive and dare I say it....pretty superficial. That definitely doesn't mean that you shouldn't give it a try. I know that my sorority would have been open to an exchange student, however, Sigma Kappa closed in April of last year.

If you are really interested in joining a sorority, the Fraternity and Sorority Director may allow for you to join and for you not to count towards quota. There is always COB'ing, which tends to be less competitve.

Here is the link for SDSU Greek Life, I say definitely look into it. Joining a sorority is a great experience!!

http://www.sa.sdsu.edu/cfsl/

Thanks I was able to see lots of things I wanted to know on the website, if only the 2 others universities had such a comprehensive site about the subject.

KSUViolet06 · #12 12-08-2007, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Nolita

Thanks I was able to see lots of things I wanted to know on the website, if only the 2 others universities had such a comprehensive site about the subject.

Cal State Long Beach, Greek Life:

www.csulb.edu/greek/

CSUN Greek Life:

http://www.csun.edu/getinvolved/frat...rospective.htm

GatorDG · #13 12-09-2007, 04:44 PM

When I was a student (in the dark ages), we had two exchange students that lived in our house. The first stayed for one year. It was such a great experience that two years later we invited another to live with us. The second became so close with our members, she was extended a bid and became a sister.

Living in the house when they were not members was an issue during meetings and rituals. However, we were able to work them out. Both of them had a very positive impact on our house. I think that, while being a senior might be a negative, it is more than balanced by the cultural exposure that is gained. Best of luck.

Concerning upper classmen going through recruitment: sometimes I think that the GLO's are so concerned about having a member for four years that they forget that the commitment is for a lifetime. I know the theory is that the four years will create a stronger bond, but that is not always the case or our alum groups would be so large that they would have difficulty finding places to meet.

1sarahmac · #14 12-12-2007, 07:29 PM

Hey all. I was actually thinking about this the other day.

I will be a senior next year and I'm hoping to do a semester at a university in the US (UNC, Chico university in California or LSU). I will only be there for fall semester, will I have any chance of being accepted into a sorority? I know it's a slim chance

KSUViolet06 · #15 12-12-2007, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by 1sarahmac

Hey all. I was actually thinking about this the other day.

I will be a senior next year and I'm hoping to do a semester at a university in the US (UNC, Chico university in California or LSU). I will only be there for fall semester, will I have any chance of being accepted into a sorority? I know it's a slim chance

Unfortunately, I honestly don't see a sorority taking someone who would only be around for a semester.