Anyone from the University of ALABAMA!!!???

[samjones]

i think the Greek system at alabama is great! but as a fraternity member, i was wondering why the sororities have SOOO MANY RULES about their girls having a good image and not hooking up with guys?

i mean its cool and all...but i would think the attitude would be more relaxed and laid back about hook ups and all


ROOOOOOLLLLL TIIIIIIIIDDDDEEEE ROOOOOOOLLLLL!

Originally Posted by samjones

i think the Greek system at alabama is great! but as a fraternity member, i was wondering why the sororities have SOOO MANY RULES about their girls having a good image and not hooking up with guys?

i mean its cool and all...but i would think the attitude would be more relaxed and laid back about hook ups and all


ROOOOOOLLLLL TIIIIIIIIDDDDEEEE ROOOOOOOLLLLL!

My sorority has no rule against our members hooking up with men. We may have guidelines encouraging our members NOT to act like a drunken slut at functions, but we have no rule against our members hooking up with men.

What fraternity are you a member of?

[samjones]

it just seems like there alotta prudes

Originally Posted by samjones

it just seems like there alotta prudes

Why'd you edit out that you're a member of AKL?

I second everything Animate said.

[SthrnZeta]

Originally Posted by OTW

I second everything Animate said.

What they said.

[samjones]

b/c u didnt reply to what sorority YOU'RE IN!!!!!!!! so i didnt say what fraternity i was in either.


why cant i ever get a straight answer to a question without starting drama...


geez


(roll tide)

[Animate]

Originally Posted by samjones

i think the Greek system at alabama is great! but as a fraternity member, i was wondering why the sororities have SOOO MANY RULES about their girls having a good image and not hooking up with guys?

i mean its cool and all...but i would think the attitude would be more relaxed and laid back about hook ups and all


ROOOOOOLLLLL TIIIIIIIIDDDDEEEE ROOOOOOOLLLLL!

1. I don't think you really go to UA.
2. I think you know someone that goes to UA.
3. I think that person is NOT greek.
4. I think you are just spewing random jibberish.
5. I like cereal.

[Benzgirl]

Are you still transferring to Vanderbilt?

[samjones]

well actually one of my friends here at bama did transfer b/c he warned me before i came that IN HIS OPINION (not saying this is true) the fraternity parties were lame b/c girls didn't come unless they had to in order to get their sorority points and that football game dates didn't mean anything b/c many of the girls already had bf's and that many of the girls were prudes.

not saying its true, just what he thinks. he's at auburn now.

im just asking a genuine post guys, i love bama. roll tide!

[Bamamom13]

As the Mom of a Bama sorority girl, I say "Way to go, girl". I am very glad that she is not hooking up with the likes of you. If that is all you want out of a relationship, then maybe you are looking in the wrong place!!

[Animate]

Dude...seriously...get off the points thing. The point system has little to nothing to do with what you are trying to convety. If a girl doesn't go home with you she doesn't want to plain and simple. If she goes to an event and doesn't go home with you...she doesn't want you.

And stop all the damn Roll Tide mess. It really makes you seem immature.

[samjones]

A) dude, i'll be happy to stop with the roll tides if it bothers you.

B) you dont understand...its about the image of the sorority...if they go home with you their sorority will be labeled as slutty. plus i asked one girl and she said that the girls in the sorority told her NOT to go into a guys room in case something goes on. its imp. for the sororities to keep their image.

[cuteASAbug]

Originally Posted by samjones

you dont understand...its about the image of the sorority...if they go home with you their sorority will be labeled as slutty. plus i asked one girl and she said that the girls in the sorority told her NOT to go into a guys room in case something goes on. its imp. for the sororities to keep their image.

It's not necessarily about image. It's about their sisters' safety. When my friend was pledging Phi Mu, she told me that her chapter had a rule that they weren't allowed on the second floor of fraternity houses or anywhere else in the house that wasn't a "common" area to prevent any chance of date rape or of girls feeling pressured to do things that they didn't want to do with guys.

[Kevlar281]

Originally Posted by samjones

but as a fraternity member, i was wondering why the sororities have SOOO MANY RULES about their girls having a good image and not hooking up with guys?

It's just a BS excuse girls give when they don't find a guy attractive; sounds like it's time for you to hit the gym.

[samjones]

kevlar, why dont you just tell me a rush line? or better, i can tell you a few that were told to me!

when i rushed, i was told some stuff that would make a man seem like Fabio:

A) "ya man u can just grab a couple girls after a swap and take them back your place. unless ofcourse the president wants to do them."

B) "i took a girl after one of our parties back to lakeside and did her in the elevator"

C) "this pool table [it was in the fraternity house] is filthy...so much has happened on it"

D) "the girls usually just get really get drunk and [insert curse word] here on the couch

E) "i got a girl the first week i was here...we did in the kitchen of our fraternity house"

F) "the girls here are as h***y as we are...they just wanna [insert curse word]


OH and one alumni in a good fraternity told me (very drunk)

"im not gonna bull---- you and give you a bunch of rush lines, but i can say going greek gives you something to do"

so kevlar, maybe we can exchange some more rush lines? just send me a message.



after all of that, its to the girls credit and responsibility not to sleep around...i couldn't image what the guys would say if they did