What is clingy?

ziasha07 · #1 04-01-2007, 12:37 AM

What is your opinion of what clingy is for males and/or females?

James · #2 04-01-2007, 01:19 AM

When someone has exceeded the comfort level of their significant other when it comes to together time or being accountable for where they are and what they have done.

Think multiple calls daily to check in or see whats up.

I know thats not really a useful description. But its going to be highly variable depending on the both the individual involved and how into each other they are.

Some people like to move into their BF/GF's ass and take up residence. Some people really like that. Others not so much. It can make it uncomfortable to move around . . .

Also, some people will allow or encourage more clinginess in the beginning when things are new, or when they like the other person more.

AKA_Monet · #3 04-01-2007, 01:24 AM

Stalking is illegal in all 50 states...

That is clingy.

Another this is whiny to get what you want. Most men hate that tactic unless they are paying for a prostitute in a girly suit. Or if homeboy is a pedophile trying to catch some off "Perverted Justice".

For male: Men are possessive. When it borderlines on domestic violence that is not clingy, that is possesesive.

ziasha07 · #4 04-01-2007, 01:29 AM

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Originally Posted by James

Some people like to move into their BF/GF's ass and take up residence. Some people really like that. Others not so much. It can make it uncomfortable to move around . . .

LLLLMAO!

Scandia · #5 04-01-2007, 07:13 AM

- Wanting your significant other to be around you all the time.
- Not having any hobbies or activities of your own that do not involve your significant other. Not wanting the significant other to have any either.
- Having your entire life revolve around your significant other.

It may not necessarily cross the line into jealousy or possessiveness. It may not involve stalking. But it is still problematic.

VAgirl18 · #6 04-01-2007, 09:45 AM

a few things things:

-when they feel the urge to sit next to their computer and put alerts on your screen name so that they can instant message you when you're no longer idle but still away..and its a regular occurance except when they're in class or sleeping.

-if they get angry because you haven't texted them in a two hour span just to say hi.

-those that feel the need to hold onto you all night long. let me have my half of the bed, i'm not going anywhere!

christiangirl · #7 04-01-2007, 03:11 PM

*When they purposely do not leave the house, but instead sit in their house, showered and dressed, just in case you call and want to do something.

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Originally Posted by VAgirl18

-if they get angry because you haven't texted them in a two hour span just to say hi.

The guy I'm dating had a gf who was like this, so he figured all women need this kind of attention, which brings me to--

*Calling to say "hi," hearing me say "I'm busy, I'll call you later," then calling back in 2 hours to say "hi."

*Calling more than 5 times AND exchanging 40+ text messages in any 48 hour period, especially when half of mine said "I'm busy, I'll get back to you."