Relationship w/o sex?

TheEpitome1920 · #1 03-30-2004, 11:27 AM

Am I the only person who believes its possible to have a relationship and not have sex? A male friend of mine says it would be hard to find a man who would enter into a relationship with a woman who he knew he wasn't going to have sex with.

nikki1920 · #2 03-30-2004, 05:22 PM

It might be difficult but I dont think it would be impossible.

Sex is overrated..
Enjoyable, but overrated.. lol.

ShamikaT · #3 09-11-2006, 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by nikki1920

It might be difficult but I dont think it would be impossible.

Sex is overrated..
Enjoyable, but overrated.. lol.

GIRL....

Even as a born again virgin, I think that comment is.just.wrong.!

The mens who you were with prolly just didn't know how to work it.

neosoul · #4 09-11-2006, 08:19 PM

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Originally Posted by ShamikaT

GIRL....

Even as a born again virgin, I think that comment is.just.wrong.!

The mens who you were with prolly just didn't know how to work it.

ROTFL...

teena · #5 09-16-2006, 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by ShamikaT

GIRL....

Even as a born again virgin, I think that comment is.just.wrong.!

The mens who you were with prolly just didn't know how to work it.

heheheh

I think that it is very possible to find a man who is willing to have a non sexual relationship.....but you better believe he has a GOOD reason not to want to have sex. That is all I will say about that.

nikki1920 · #6 09-29-2006, 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by ShamikaT

GIRL....

Even as a born again virgin, I think that comment is.just.wrong.!

The mens who you were with prolly just didn't know how to work it.

You can't be serious!

ladyb08 · #7 09-30-2006, 03:02 AM

I guess it would depend on the relationship you have with the person, and what you all have already established with one another. Just be honest up front. If you say what you want and/or need before the "tempting situation" even comes up, I think that the chance lessens of either of you doing something not desired...

Then again, this is the opinion of a young lady who's never experienced this sort of situation... Most of them go about their business after I tell them, and I feel I'm better off without the runaround.

KAY10 · #8 09-30-2006, 03:19 AM

It's possible if someone's morals are that important to them. We're all human and it's very easy for us to fall as victims to temptation. If we can avoid listening to the flesh then it's possible to wait until marriage before having sex, as long as both can agree on it.

#9 10-06-2006, 02:37 PM

Reality......REALITY!!!!
Yeah you can have a relationship without sex...
If you’re living in 1952 next to leave it to Beaver.
Truth is, it's 2006, and sex before marriage or sex in a relationship that hasn't had time to flourish is about as common as hotdog rolls on a fat man's neck. Who is really to blame? Or should I say who is really ready for whom. If you can't see yourself having sex so soon, or before marriage, you shouldn't even worry about having a relationship, cause as horrible as it sounds, truth is most people expect to have sex in a relationship. Not just the guys, girls get horny too. If you can't see yourself in a relationship without sex, then you need to find yourself someone that is as sexual as you are... All this, trying to pair up with people who are obviously not compatible, then turning around and complaining isn't going to work. And I hate to say it, but there are a lot of "nice" guys out there not concerned with sex who get overlooked cause they don't look a certain way, or act a certain way and... You know the rest.

TRSimon · #10 10-12-2006, 09:44 PM

It's possible. Most MEN respect what they have to work for. Note that I said MEN not boys. Cause boys are all upset cause they don't get any free dairy goods

Luckie1922 · #11 01-16-2007, 04:39 PM

It wouldn’t be difficult for a man to enter into a non-sexual relationship with a woman, but you can definitely believe he will be having sex with that sexual non-relationship woman

KAY10 · #12 09-30-2006, 11:12 PM

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Originally Posted by nikki1920

You can't be serious!

What do you mean by overrated?

thesweetestone · #13 09-30-2006, 09:52 AM

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Originally Posted by nikki1920

Sex is overrated..
Enjoyable, but overrated.. lol.

I totally agree with you.

Sophist08edLady · #14 10-01-2006, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by nikki1920

Sex is overrated..
Enjoyable, but overrated.. lol.

No disrespect, but you must be either doing it wrong or with the wrong person.

I am still unclear about the question posed...are we talking about abstinence until marriage or are we talking about a life time without sex?

nikki1920 · #15 10-03-2006, 01:59 PM

Overrated in that its not the be all, end all to a relationship, which is what I thought it was when I was younger, and not having it. Now that I've had it, yes, it can be great, but a good relationship is not built solely on sex. A person's best sex organ is located between their ears, IMO.

That's what I meant...