Guys help!!

[Buttonz]

I need help....
If u were hooking up w/a girl and her sisters kept on telling u not to hurt her and asking what is going on with u 2 and its nothing more then a hookup what would u think was going on and what she was telling them would u be weirded out?

[tunatartare]

Calm down hunny. Close your eyes. Count to ten. Get a drink of water. Take a long breath. It's going to be alright.

[Buttonz]

Really? You promise??
I think I am goign tocall him after I gt out of my last class tomorrow and try and get him to come over to talk

[tunatartare]

And say what? I think that's a bad idea, if anything, it might only freak him out more. I think you need to talk to your sisters to let them know how you feel and that you appreciate their concern but they need to take a step back.

[Buttonz]

Daisy,
I have spoek to them about it. I want to know what he honestly feels about them coming up to him and talkign ot him, he isn't the type of guy to beat around the bush. He told me tongiht that my sisters are great and that they are only doing it because they care, which might be true but regardless, it's only a hook-up! They are making it seem like it's so much more and driving me crazy because it has no chance of anything more

[tunatartare]

Ok well in that case hunny, I'm sorry to say but he most likely finds it annoying because I'm a nice girl and not a guy and if I were hooking up with someone and had to deal with his fraternity brothers "warning me" I wouldn't be the happiest camper out there.

[Buttonz]

Daisy,
I agree with you. Why do you think I want to talk to hinm about it?

[absolutuscchick]

It's concern. At least for me, if I keep hooking up with the same person, as much as I might not want it to, I begin to feel attatched. Then crushed when they don't want to do anything with me but hook up. So I would say watch out, because just a hook-up to him won't mean anything, but for you, I highly suspect that it will. Be thankful that your sisters are there for you so you don't get hurt!!

[Lady Pi Phi]

If the both of you are just looking for sex and you know where ach other stands, and you're 100% cool with the situation you need to tell your sisters that you appreciate your concern, but there's nothing going on between us and we're just having a good time. Hopefully they will back off.
But it seems to me that you don't know where he stands and you're not 100% cool with this situation and your sisters realize this and are just looking out for you. They don't want to see you get hurt.
I definitly think you should talk to him, find out what he's looking for. If it's not something you want or are uncomfortable with. GET OUT!! I can't stress that enough. You're only going to wind up hurt.

[Buttonz]

We are't having sex, just fooling around....and even though it's usally not like me, I'm fine with it. I knew before anything happend that there was no chance of anything more...I jsut wish my sisters were able to see that I am fine with it

[James]

I would think it was more than a hook-up to you and I would not be a totally happy camper that you are discussing my sex life with your sisters.

[Buttonz]

FOrgot to add this: Most of my sisters know his sex life..it is pretty much public knowledge becuase he is honest about it....*



*edited b/c of the bad impression on him and because of a thing known as TMI*

[absolutuscchick]

Originally posted by Buttonz
I mean he did have sex with one in front of people! *including a sister and one of his bros....*

WHY ARE YOU FOOLING AROUND WITH THIS DIRTY BASTARD!!!

[tunatartare]

Originally posted by absolutuscchick
WHY ARE YOU FOOLING AROUND WITH THIS DIRTY BASTARD!!!

He may be a dirty bastard but hey, at least he's her dirty bastard. LOL, sorry Caryn, couldn't resist.

[absolutuscchick]

Sweetie, be careful you don't get an STD from him...hes probably swarmy with them!!