On calling someone a "hater"

Sverige · #1 08-01-2003, 11:10 AM

Why is everybody talking this hater crap? Its so easy to call someone a "hater" now. People just throw that word in when they feel its convenient. Do you realize that a homosexual male could call you a hater cuz you dont blow pipesteak. Just because someone disagrees, has a different opinion on a subject, and voices their feelings...they are automatically branded a "hater".

Riddle me this..if you call someone a hater..you are basically just disagreeing with the point of view. Are you not hating on the person who was initially hating? I thought so...everyone keep that in mind next time you're ready to call somebody on alleged hating...

-from another forum

decadence · #2 08-01-2003, 11:29 AM

Sverige. I'm obviously dealing with someone of breathtakingly low intellect when I address you. I'll try not to use words of too many syllables.

Do you realize that a homosexual male could call you a hater cuz you dont blow pipesteak. No, they could call you a HETEROSEXUAL. I'll try to explain some definitions for you,unfortunately this is text only and I imagine you usually prefer to learn from pop-up books. But here goes:

1) Heterosexual = A boy or man who likes girls or women in a romantic/sexual sense. I am one of these.
n.b obviously heterosexuals are male or female.
1) Homosexual = A boy or man who happens to have been wired up differently and prefers members of his own sex in the romantic/sexual sense.
n.b obviously homosexuals are also male or female.
3) Homophobe. One with a fear, mistrust or irrational dislike of homosexuals. Characterised by emotional immaturity.

So you see, Sverige... hopefully

heterosexual is a DIFFERENT thing to homophobe. Thus a homosexual male would not be likely to suggest you hate him just because you do not also like guys.

Just because someone disagrees, has a different opinion on a subject, and voices their feelings...they are automatically branded a "hater". Effective communicators CAN disagree with someone's point of view without 'being a "hater"'. If and when you grow up, you may realise that prejudices based on someone's skin color, sexuality etc are not societally or morally acceptable and do not as you seem to think merely constitute a "different opinion".

- from another forum. Let me be the first to say it's an awful shame it wasn't left at that other forum.

I'll stop there, tempting as it might be to carry on, your parents and upbringing have obviously failed to educate you and I don't have the inclination to do so myself.

Have a nice day.

Eirene_DGP · #3 08-01-2003, 11:32 AM

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Originally posted by Sverige
Do you realize that a homosexual male could call you a hater cuz you dont blow pipesteak.

ROTFLMAO!!! Ok, since you are not from the U.S you do not understand the whole concept of hater...So I'll break it down for you.

Some examples:

1. Ok if I see that "Jane" has a new car and I have an old clunker and I say something like, "Well I never liked the type of car Jane has anyway, and I hope it breaks down" then you are a hater.

2. If I have a new boyfriend and you do everything in your power to sabotage the relationship because you don't have one, then you are a hater.

3. If you buy a new Prada belt and everyone compliments you on it and I say something like...."That belt is gay as hell from what I can see" then I'm a hater.

Being a hater has nothing to do with whether you agree or disagree. Its a matter of you not "approving" of something because of jealousy, envy, pride, etc.

Sverige · #4 08-01-2003, 11:48 AM

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Originally posted by decadence
Sverige. I'm obviously dealing with someone of breathtakingly low intellect when I address you. I'll try not to use words of too many syllables.

Do you realize that a homosexual male could call you a hater cuz you dont blow pipesteak. No, they could call you a HETEROSEXUAL. I'll try to explain some definitions for you,unfortunately this is text only and I imagine you usually prefer to learn from pop-up books. But here goes:

1) Heterosexual = A boy or man who likes girls or women in a romantic/sexual sense. I am one of these.
n.b obviously heterosexuals are male or female.
1) Homosexual = A boy or man who happens to have been wired up differently and prefers members of his own sex in the romantic/sexual sense.
n.b obviously homosexuals are also male or female.
3) Homophobe. One with a fear, mistrust or irrational dislike of homosexuals. Characterised by emotional immaturity.

So you see, Sverige... hopefully heterosexual is a DIFFERENT thing to homophobe. Thus a homosexual male would not be likely to suggest you hate him just because you do not also like guys.

Just because someone disagrees, has a different opinion on a subject, and voices their feelings...they are automatically branded a "hater". Effective communicators CAN disagree with someone's point of view without 'being a "hater"'. If and when you grow up, you may realise that prejudices based on someone's skin color, sexuality etc are not societally or morally acceptable and do not as you seem to think merely constitute a "different opinion".

- from another forum. Let me be the first to say it's an awful shame it wasn't left at that other forum.

I'll stop there, tempting as it might be to carry on, your parents and upbringing have obviously failed to educate you and I don't have the inclination to do so myself.

Have a nice day.

Actually, decadence, I copied and pasted that from another forum. I totally know what being a hater is. I just had the urge to post what I saw in another forum since things get rowdy in this chit chat room. Since you were dumbfounded by the statement, I guess you failed to notice the statement at the bottom of my post.....

-from another forum....

Dumbass. Yet, that pop-up book comment made me laugh. I needed it. I had a late night last night and only got 2 hours of sleep. I still can't sleep right now.

meridionaleDG · #5 08-01-2003, 12:14 PM

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Originally posted by Sverige
Actually, decadence, I copied and pasted that from another forum. I totally know what being a hater is. I just had the urge to post what I saw in another forum since things get rowdy in this chit chat room. Since you were dumbfounded by the statement, I guess you failed to notice the statement at the bottom of my post.....

-from another forum....

Dumbass. Yet, that pop-up book comment made me laugh. I needed it. I had a late night last night and only got 2 hours of sleep. I still can't sleep right now.

Hater.

Lady Pi Phi · #6 08-01-2003, 12:32 PM

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Originally posted by Sverige
Actually, decadence, I copied and pasted that from another forum. I totally know what being a hater is. I just had the urge to post what I saw in another forum since things get rowdy in this chit chat room. Since you were dumbfounded by the statement, I guess you failed to notice the statement at the bottom of my post.....

-from another forum....

Dumbass. Yet, that pop-up book comment made me laugh. I needed it. I had a late night last night and only got 2 hours of sleep. I still can't sleep right now.

No, I don't think you truely understand the definition of hater. If you really did you wouldn't have started this thread.

PiKA2001 · #7 08-01-2003, 12:59 PM

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Originally posted by Lady Pi Phi
No, I don't think you truely understand the definition of hater. If you really did you wouldn't have started this thread.

Looks like someone just drank a glass of Hater-Ade.

librasoul22 · #8 08-01-2003, 01:03 PM

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Originally posted by meridionaleDG
Hater.

LOL.

bethany1982 · #9 08-01-2003, 01:04 PM

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Originally posted by PiKA2001
Looks like someone just drank a glass of Hater-Ade.

LOL! Hope it was refreshing.

absolutuscchick · #10 08-01-2003, 01:09 PM

lol this thread cracks me up!

bethany1982 · #11 08-01-2003, 01:34 PM

This thread really needs the input of that SMURF that hated everything. Something like, "I hate hating haters."

DeltaSigStan · #12 08-01-2003, 01:37 PM

One of my friends still thinks she's going to become this great rap producer even though her beats are shitty and the guy she supposedly has connections with will probably use her somehow.

GUess I'm a hater too.

bethany1982 · #13 08-01-2003, 01:39 PM

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Originally posted by DeltaSigStan
One of my friends still thinks she's going to become this great rap producer even though her beats are shitty and the guy she supposedly has connections with will probably use her somehow.

GUess I'm a hater too.

I hate that. Love the sig though!

enlightenment06 · #14 08-01-2003, 02:11 PM

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Originally posted by bethany1982
This thread really needs the input of that SMURF that hated everything. Something like, "I hate hating haters."

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Lady Pi Phi · #15 08-01-2003, 02:23 PM

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Originally posted by PiKA2001
Looks like someone just drank a glass of Hater-Ade.

Yeah and it was quite good too