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Originally posted by LamdaXiDZ
it kinda makes me upset that people would try to do this.
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Lambda Xi-
I understand your feelings, and totally appreciate your energy on this! Whoever dzh8er is, is incredibly bitter, but his/her anger is misdirected. We don't necessarily know that it is a female--it could just as easily be a guy who has been hurt. (Although the M.O. is distinctly female). We don't need to add fuel to his/her fire, though.
Of course, we know the truth of our ritual...to say "most" or "all" of h8er's content is incorrect, is not necessary. To respond to this in any serious way, or directly counter anything like an alleged handshake or "entry question" (whatever that is) is what this person wants--she/he probably even expects one of us to slip and say "nu-unh, we don't do that, but ____". While it seems harmless, we need to remember that discussion of our ritual with any non-initiated member is not acceptable. If it can't be deleted or closed, I suggest we ignore it completely and let it get off the first page (although the electric slide thing was priceless, Killarney Rose!).
Lambda Xi-keep that flame burning--cuz I can tell you are on fire about DZ!
Hugs,
Andi, Xi Nu, '89
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looking back
and hey maybe we should do the electric slide at meetings...talk about bonding with your sisters 
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