Big/Little Question

[mom2many]

It's been a long time (30 years ) since I've had the big/little questions so here goes.

Big/Little reveal for my daughter is within the next couple of weeks. Is she suppose to provide a gift for this event? When we did ours back in the 'olden times' I *think* I got my big something? I cannot remember - I think I killed those brain cells when I got divorced.

If she is suppose to give a gift what is appropriate? What is too much? If she decides to give even a small something would she be made fun of?

Help?

[33girl]

Her pledge mistress will let her know what the tradition is in her chapter. Our littles never got bigs anything till initiation (and that was a paddle which aren't allowed by many groups now) but every chapter foes things differently.

[Griffins&Quills]

Usually the big sisters give gifts to the little sisters.

If her chapter does "Big Appreciation Week" or "Pillow/Paddle Exchange" then would be the time for her to do gifts for her Big Sis.