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12-08-2010, 01:52 AM
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Dropping a Sorority
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Last edited by sweetpea14; 12-08-2010 at 03:22 AM.
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12-08-2010, 01:58 AM
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Oh lord.
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12-08-2010, 02:04 AM
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I haven't decided if I'm going to drop yet but... I was going to talk to my president about it. I feel like I have meet the people I want to meet and the sorority life isn't for me. I don't like the frat parties I would much rather party with the people I partied with last year when I was freshmen. I feel like I can't be myself around my sisters which is really hard... Even my Big acts like she didn't even want me as her little. Im initiation and everything but I just don't feel right anymore I think I have turned into a bitch and I was never like that before. I also don't want to be paying for something I feel so left out of, I have even gone to all the events. Can I get the money back that I already paid? I need some advise as to what to do? I feel like I don't need to be greek to have friends and that the people I got to know before I was greek are way better then the friends I have made being greek... HELP!
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I'm confused as to what you need help with?
You want to drop? Drop. Why come here and ask for opinions when it's pretty clear what you want to do?
Also, sororities don't make bitches. You were likely such BEFORE you joined.
There are plenty of threads about this and I'm unsure why your situation needed its own thread.
Oh, and PS. I'm fairly certain that all sororities are NO REFUNDS.
Have a nice day and spare me the "oh you're mean" and "this is why I'm dropping out" and "you're a disgrace to the Greek community" stuff because I'm fairly certain that's what's coming next.
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12-08-2010, 12:04 PM
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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
Also, sororities don't make bitches. You were likely such BEFORE you joined.
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12-08-2010, 01:35 PM
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Also, sororities don't make bitches. You were likely such BEFORE you joined.
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12-08-2010, 06:39 PM
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Also, sororities don't make bitches. You were likely such BEFORE you joined.
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12-08-2010, 07:12 PM
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Also, sororities don't make bitches. You were likely such BEFORE you joined.
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12-08-2010, 11:10 PM
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Oh lord.
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*pokes you* let's qfp next time, shall we? 
it's such a delightful surprise when KSU says "mean" stuff. lmao!
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12-08-2010, 11:26 PM
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*pokes you* let's qfp next time, shall we?
it's such a delightful surprise when KSU says "mean" stuff. lmao! |
I've still yet to figure out what QFP means. Forgive me, I'm still new 
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12-09-2010, 12:39 AM
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I've still yet to figure out what QFP means. Forgive me, I'm still new |
QFP= Quoted for Posterity. Aka you said something really stupid and you can't go back and change your story because someone quoted it in all of its glory.
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12-09-2010, 01:08 PM
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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
Also, sororities don't make bitches. You were likely such BEFORE you joined.
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Seems uncalled for to me.
Fraternity and Sorority life isn't for everyone. The OP was simply here asking for some outside and anonymous guidance and all of you really lashed out at her. It sounds to me like she probably ended up at a house that wasn't right for her. You can't tell me that there aren't sororities on your campus that you haven't thought of as being particularly bitchy or snobbish (there were certainly sorors and fraternities alike that fit that description on my campus). You were probably just aware of it enough not to join that one. Who knows why she originally felt it right for her, whether it was the prestige, family, the boys, the parties, etc. What is clear though is that now she feels like an outsider and to rectify that has tried to fit in. Perhaps wanting to fit in is a character flaw, but I don't think so, and even if it is, she came here for advice and not to have any such feelings of inadequacy thrown back in her face. In fairness, GC wasn't really established as a support group, but rather a social group...but nevertheless I thought community support was one of the underlying beliefs of most of our organizations.
To the OP, it does sound like you've made your mind up, and it is unfortunate it didn't work out for you, but I do think you may wish to withdraw from the organization.
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12-09-2010, 01:19 PM
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In fairness, GC wasn't really established as a support group, but rather a social group....
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Exactly. Those of you who insist on coddling usernames can do so on your own GC time.
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12-08-2010, 09:03 AM
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Also, sororities don't make bitches. You were likely such BEFORE you joined.
priceless!
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12-08-2010, 10:13 AM
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Originally Posted by FSUZeta
Also, sororities don't make bitches. You were likely such BEFORE you joined.
priceless!
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Love this!!!!
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12-08-2010, 10:31 AM
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I really hope the OP is ESL, otherwise, I have lost total faith in our school system...not that I had much faith to begin with when my kindergartener came home a few weeks ago and said that her teacher told the class that they can drop out of school at 16.
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