Why didnt I get a bid?

[sadguy]

So I rushed a frat my first semester of freshman year and i got a bid but had to drop due to issues with my family the day after bid night. I talked to my pledge master and he said I can rush next semester and i did all the brothers seemed chill and acceptable when i told them that my issues were resolved and having my former pledge bros votes behind me i thought ill get a bid for sure but i didn't get one; even the guy who said he's not gonne pledge and was there just to check things out got a bid. why didn't I get a bid?
ps: people have dropped due issues with family and joined back again in this frat so i wasn't the only one with this situation

[AnchorAlumna]

No need to post this in more than one forum.

I'm sorry, but nobody here is able to tell you why. We weren't there and weren't part of the discussion. If you know someone well in the fraternity, maybe you can ask them, but they may not be able to tell you because most of that type of info is private.

It might be time to move on and try a different group, or develop other interests.