Why I am Angry and Relocation Advice Request

[Asia2000]

Ok, just to get this off my chest: Napster is going off line on Friday night. I am heartbroken!! I love Napster and have become a bit addicted.

Anyway, the real reason for this post: I have a feeling quite a few of you have experience with this, so I am asking for some words of wisdom.

How do you handle relocating to a city quite far away? The only time I had to move city to city with my parent's help, the city was close enough for me to drive over and check out apartments/neighborhoods before signig a lease. I was also able to drive up and apply for jobs and interview. How do you handle all this when you're moving far away (too far to drive up and check things out) and you don't know the city well and you don't really know anyone there?

I am worried about getting in over my head, getting into a place in a terrible neighborhood (I keep worrying I might end up in a neighborhood like the one i grew up in!!).

Any advice, aside from the obvioius (do your research)?

Thanks in advance.

[bklyndelta]

Hey Asia2000!

I know the anxiety you are experiencing over relocating. Like you, I am about to embark on a move that will carry me approximately 800 miles from my homestate.
Actually I lucked up and met a very nice leasing agent at one of the complexs I toured. She basically gave me the "low-down" on the city, a map, and kindly highlighted the appealing parts of town, so to speak.

2) In so far as job interviews, I scheduled all of mine for the week I was there. It worked out well, even though I had about 3 interviews a day. As a result, I have decided to take one of these job offers.

Depending on where you are going, you should try and talk to people, especially those that work as leasing agents because they are the best thing since apple pie! LOL
Then again, depending upon where you grew up, you can pretty much determine which neighborhoods are the most desireable. At least I can because I'm a New Yorker!! LOL LOL

Hope this little bit of advice helps!
GOOD LUCK!

"THEE BKLYNDLTA"
1913% LEGIT AND LOVIN' IT

[SigEpYoda]

Just like to say, MEtallica sucks!!!!!!!! Long live napster. By the way, try to find FTP sites, Metallica could never ever shut them down. About moving,

Try using www.rent.com. Couple of my brothers used it and they said it was very helpfull in finding apartments. As for jobs, sorry, got mine during my senior year.
I had it ready by the time I graduated. Finally listen to my parents.

Most large cities will have apartment/house locators. They'll give you a survey to find out your wants and needs in a place and they'll help you find out about them. Also check out places like www.springstreet.com, www.apartments.com. Many apartment locators now have websites.

After you have limited your choises to say 5 or so, you can contact the local police department and find out about the level of insidents reported in the area. You probalby won't beable to get specifics, but they should be able to tell you, that X were for disturbing the piece, X for car theif/robbery, X for domestic dispute.

Sometimes its best to get an opinon from a resident. Being that you said you didn't know anyone. You still may have other resources availble to you. Look up a local church in the area that you might go to when you move, explain to the staff your predicument. They should have some recommendations, or parishiers to talk to. If you plan on being involved in an organization - contact their local office. Look for alum from your college in the area to consult. Or contact the human resources department/person at the place you are looking at for a job. Also, do a web search, you might beable to find a few forums that discuss regional issues. But do consider the source with anyone you are talking to.

Best of Luck

[equeen]

Asia,

I too am unhappy about Napster. Are you relocating due to a job? If so, the company's HR department might be able to recommend and/or provide services to help you in your move.



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equeen
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[Asia2000]

Originally posted by equeen:
Asia,
Are you relocating due to a job? If so, the company's HR department might be able to recommend and/or provide services to help you in your move.

Thanks for all the responses. I am taking it all into consideration.

Ms. Brooklyn Delta -- actually I am born and raised in Queens. NYC luv to ya!

No, I am not moving due to a job. I am moving because I want to go home (to me, the city is home). I've been misplaced for too long and the city is calling my heart home (you city born people should know what I mean!). This southern region is becoming a lot more than I want to bear. I need the sanity the city offers (if that makes any sense at all!!) ;-)

Thanks again

[SilverTurtle]

Asia-

I just returned from my fraterntiy's National Convention. I met a lot of wonderful people. One of the ladies (who graduated from my university in 1942!!) gave me some great advice.. she pointed out that anytime I go to or near a city, there is probably an alumni chapter there. And I have an instant supply of friends and people knowledgeable about the city!

If you belong to a national organization, see if you can locate some alumni in the area you are moving to. I'm sure they would be MORE than happy to help you out!!

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Phi Beta Fraternity
Phi chapter

[justabeachbrat]

Originally Posted by SilverTurtle

Asia-


If you belong to a national organization, see if you can locate some alumni in the area you are moving to. I'm sure they would be MORE than happy to help you out!!

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SilverTurtle@greekchat.com
Phi Beta Fraternity
Phi chapter

Didn't catch that part of your post---you passed my thought on, already.
Back to grumbling about relocating.

[AXPAlum]

Napster was granted a stay yesterday, looks like it's going to be a while before the record industry can control the world. Happy downloading...

AXPAlum

[DeltAlum]

No comment on Napster except to say that I'm not sure I'd want someone taking the stuff that I do to make a living and give it away free. That's why we have copyright laws.

As for moving, all of the above is good advice, expecially checking to see if there is an alumni chapter in your area. If not, is there an undergraduate chapter? Second, it is likely that your university/college will also have an alumni chapter nearby. Check with the alumni association on your campus. I'm the president of our local chapter.

And good luck.

DeltAlum

[tld221]

8 years guys.

[AnchorAlumna]

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[ComradesTrue]

While I am sure that the OP appreciates everyone's helpful input, by now I am fairly certain that s/he has already moved, found a job, got married, had a few kids and moved to the surburbs.

The post is from 2000.

[nittanyalum]

Originally Posted by Blondie93

While I am sure that the OP appreciates everyone's helpful input, by now I am fairly certain that s/he has already moved, found a job, got married, had a few kids and moved to the surburbs.

The post is from 2000.

LOL! I wonder if she ever got over her anger about Napster...