I send a gracious thanks to those who replied to my message that I posted. And to put in a tidbit of information so that my intent will not be misconstrued, I want the "rituals" or "traditions" to be a suprise to him and make the ceremony not only a proof of my commitment to him but also an understanding that his fraternity is important and everlasting part of his life. For those that offered the advice of talking to his "frats", double thanks, I had thought of that, but wasn't sure if it were proper to delve into somethings of that nature. Again thank you and if you have not already found the love of your life, your true soulmate, as I have done, I hope that you are blessed to do so.