NOT that I'm getting married anytime soon (I have one year left as an active to have a candlelight, and it doesn't look like that's going to happen... 

 ) but I was wondering if there are any traditions done at Kappa weddings?  One of our alums sent us some 
wedding pictures, and one of the flowers she had worked into her 
wedding was the iris, it was her husband's boutinnere, and I thought that was a really cute touch.  So anything else?