Rush at UCSC - Page 6

cutehootie · #1 10-02-2001, 02:47 PM

Good luck, Corina. Its an ambitious undertaking, but it seems like you have your head about you. Just take it one step at a time and don't let the smaller obstacles or naysayers stand in your way. The important thing is to get an on-campus adult advisor to sponser or chamption your cause.

Also, look for a local or state alumni group in the sorority you are interested in affiliating with to work with you within that organizations National infrastructure.

wishinhopin · #2 10-02-2001, 03:06 PM

Hey all,

I got this email today from NPC, and I wanted to post it here and let you all know how things are going. I'm really excited that I got such a quick response, and hopefully things will keep going well!

Corina-

Thank you for your strong interest in NPC! I would be glad to mail you an Extension Packet that explains how to go about bringing another national sorority onto your campus. If you would just email your mailing address back to me, then I will get a packet out to you! Have a great day!

So that's the story so far, more later hopefully!

maggieaxid · #3 10-02-2001, 03:11 PM

WOW! That is so awesome! They must admire your intrest and your tenacity! Congrats!

dzrose93 · #4 10-02-2001, 03:13 PM

I TOLD you that you'd get a response with that wonderful e-mail! Way to go, wishinhopin! Congratulations and Good Luck!

CutiePie2000 · #5 10-02-2001, 04:26 PM

Keep up the good work and please continue to update us!
We are all behind you and rooting for you!

greeklawgirl · #6 10-02-2001, 04:39 PM

YAY, Corina! You are on your way! We're so proud of you!

mmcat · #7 10-04-2001, 10:55 PM

we are all so proud.
just take it one step at a time and don't let anything scare you.
you can get this done and done well.
you strike me as a terrific girl and one who can lead and make a difference.
have a terrific tomorrow.
mmcat

wishinhopin · #8 10-05-2001, 12:17 AM

Not a whole lot to report here, just thought I'd say hi. I kindof had a moment where I lost my motivation when I realized that my neighbor (who I rushed with and who didn't even attend every night and who is, to be completely brutal, kindof....vapid) got into Gamma Phi. In a way it almost makes me feel better, like I see that if this is the way they are then I don't want to be a part of it anyway. I'm waiting to recieve the information packet from NPC, and as soon as I get it I'm going to get right on top of things. I'm not sure if I should start advertising now? I'm kindof scared of Gamma Phi finding out, like they're not going to appreciate competition. I don't know. I have one sorority in particular that I'm REALLY hoping for so I sent some emails to relevant people just in an effort to get my foot in the door. Honestly though, I would be happy with just about any organization. I'll be sure to keep you posted. Anyone have any thoughts on when and how I should go about getting more numbers involved?

CutiePie2000 · #9 10-05-2001, 02:02 AM

It might be a bit premature to start advertising, I would wait until an NPC sorority says to you, "Yes, we want to come to UCSC and start a colony there".

However, I would definitely make sure that you have the full names, phone numbers and email addresses of the 18 women that you said were extremely interested in being part of a NPC sorority, but they were disappointed not to get a bid from Gamma Phi Beta. Make sure that you keep a list of everyone so that when things start to take shape, you have a way of getting in touch with everyone asap. Also, with those women, ask them if they have friends who might be interested, if a new NPC group should come to campus. (I used to be involved in Youth Politics and we used to say "Underpromise and overdeliver"). Do not say "I am bringing a new sorority to campus" until you actually hear from an NPC sorority that yes, they want to come and set up a colony on your campus. You just don't want to "count your chickens before the eggs have hatched", right?

As for increasing numbers, bear in mind that you want to have women involved who you would be proud to call "sister" (echoing one of the earlier posts on this thread). So try to go for quality over quantity to ensure a strong basis for a colony. As for the 18 women that you said are interested, that sounds like a great start. What you could maybe do, is email the NPC again (or the sorority or sororities that you are interested in) and ask whether they have some supporting materials or ideas in which to get women excited or interested in this to come out!) Surely the NPC must have some P.R. pointers on how to increase interest for a colony?

As for Gamma Phi Beta at UCSC not appreciating another sorority potentially coming to campus, it is basic economics. Supply and Demand! It is not personal, the fact remains, that there were too many rushees for too few bids! So, if Gamma Phi Beta doesn't like it, the only way they can keep a monopoly of NPC sorority life on UCSC campus is to increase their chapter size and take in more rushees. I think it would be unrealistic for the Gamma Phi Beta chapter to think they would be the only NPC chapter on campus for time eternal, so if they don't like it that another group might be coming...tough beans! It is not personal, it is just that 35 extra rushee women were interested in the bonds of sisterhood and Gamma Phi Beta's chapter was full up and were unable, due to chapter size contraints, to extend that opportunity to them.

AOIIAngel · #10 10-05-2001, 08:49 AM

Good luck, you are doing wonderful so far, and listen to cutiepie-she is very right in everything. Gamma will just have to accept that they can't be the only sorority on campus, and besides, it makes rush more interesting! And don't worry, if they get upset, there isnt a lot they can do about it. So I wish you the best of luck, and keep us posted!!

DeltaBetaBaby · #11 10-05-2001, 01:20 PM

You mentioned that there was one group you are really hoping for. Can I ask on what this preference is based? I hope you keep in mind the following:

--Other chapters in the area. You will want and need their support. I know some groups have little, if any, presence on the West Coast, so you may not want one of those.

--Extension plans. Look at the last few chapters that have colonized for a specific group. Were they well-supported by National officers? Were they ultimately successful?

--Personality. I know there is officer turnover in any group, but be sure that you can work with the women who will initially be helping you. Be sure your goals are in line with their goals.

wishinhopin · #12 10-05-2001, 01:37 PM

The one group that I was particularly hoping for was Delta Gamma. This is based on a variety of reasons:
- one of my best friends is a DG and so I've spent alot of time with her and her sisters, and I've learned alot about DG. I was really impressed with everything they stand for and support.
-They have an excellent and longstanding reputation within NPC.
-There are several DG chapters nearby, all of whom have had tons of support from nationals and alumni.
Etc Etc Etc. There's more but it isn't as interesting as that. I am hoping for DG, but it's really not a huge deal. I promised myself I would go into this being completely openminded about all the groups we were considering and all the girls who would eventually be my sisters. I think it's important to be selective but I don't want to judge anyone or any organization on the superficial reasons that some people consider to be standard for sororities. Maybe that's just me being idealistic but I'm going to do what I can to make this work. I think alot of this stems from the fact that I feel I was cut from Gamma Phi for the wrong reasons. So, hopefully all will work out. If I end up becoming a DG, that will be amazing. If not, I'm sure I will find my home with another equally qualified and amazing organization. I'll keep you all posted!

SparkliiQTMTSU · #13 10-05-2001, 07:27 PM

Thanks for keeping us posted and I wish you the best of luck!! I hope everything works out for you.

Nichole

mmcat · #14 10-06-2001, 08:20 AM

Sweetie! Be brave, keep an open mind and enjoy this marvelous adventure. You know you have a lot of friends here who are with you.
cheers
mmcat

BrownEyedGirl · #15 10-06-2001, 09:42 PM

I have loved reading your story! I am SO impressed with your determination and sincerity...you have the makings of a an AMAZING sorority sister. Good luck and way to go!