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i think it is important to talk about your sexual past. you sleep with whomever they slept with, so you should at least have some idea (and it doesn't matter if it were protected or unprotected sex)! i think that in order to have a sexual relationship with someone, it is important to be able to DISCUSS things like, how many people they slept with, if they have been tested, etc. plus, if you can't go into a store and buy condoms, i think you aren't ready to have sex!
i don't want to know the details....one time, at band camp...but i feel like there needs to be an open conversation. personally, i don't have sex with random people, so i have never found it to be odd to have the conversation. i think if i met some guy at a bar and went home with him, i would be less comfortable talking to him about it......although, i guess that is when i would need to talk about it more. anyway, i feel like i should only have sex with someone if i really care about/ love them, so if some guy told me that he "loved" 23 other women....i would probably run screaming in the other direction. lol.
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