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Originally posted by sheisaprincess
Well I didn't get it. They said that they didn't invite me "at this time" so I don't know if they mean that there's a chance later on that I could get it, but oh well. Rejection hurts but life goes on and I'm better off being an independent anyway.
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Sheisaprincess, fwiw, when my sorority recolonized several years ago, they had already decided on a fixed number of women that they were going to take. Many wonderful women didn't make that first cut.
Three of them went through Recruitment the next year, and got bids - one went on to be on Homecoming Court
Since I don't know you or the whole situation, I can't say, oh, try this or try that. What I can say is that being an independent IS better for some women, while others may want to give it another try. Only you know what's best for you - and that's what I wish for you, whatever's best for YOU!