Dual Memberships - Page 7

1914blue1920 · #1 11-20-2008, 03:40 PM

Is he joking?

rugbyhurts · #2 11-30-2008, 06:26 PM

I'm in somewhat of an odd situation, and I've read through all of the posts in this thread but I just wanted to see if this situation is any different. I am in a local co-ed fraternity at my college, and I am interested in re-rushing to join a NPC sorority. Does it make any difference that I am currently in a co-ed fraternity, or would it be treated under the same rules as a regular local sorority?

I am meeting with the Greek Council President to discuss this this week (we don't have a Greek Advisor right now) so I will be getting official answers then, but I just wanted to hear from y'alls experiences. Thanks!

ETA: Oh, and after a lot of long, hard, thought I am ok with having to leave my local if necessary. The dedication is not there and has not been there for awhile, and I have done all I can to get everyone involved. I am more than ready to be a part of a group of women who ARE interested and dedicated in bettering themselves and strengthening their sisterhood.

KSUViolet06 · #3 11-30-2008, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by rugbyhurts

I'm in somewhat of an odd situation, and I've read through all of the posts in this thread but I just wanted to see if this situation is any different. I am in a local co-ed fraternity at my college, and I am interested in re-rushing to join a NPC sorority. Does it make any difference that I am currently in a co-ed fraternity, or would it be treated under the same rules as a regular local sorority?

I am meeting with the Greek Council President to discuss this this week (we don't have a Greek Advisor right now) so I will be getting official answers then, but I just wanted to hear from y'alls experiences. Thanks!

ETA: Oh, and after a lot of long, hard, thought I am ok with having to leave my local if necessary. The dedication is not there and has not been there for awhile, and I have done all I can to get everyone involved. I am more than ready to be a part of a group of women who ARE interested and dedicated in bettering themselves and strengthening their sisterhood.

In terms of NPC rules, you are eligible to participate in recruitment again. I don't know what your local co-ed group's rules are though.

rugbyhurts · #4 11-30-2008, 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

In terms of NPC rules, you are eligible to participate in recruitment again. I don't know what your local co-ed group's rules are though.

KSUViolet06: Thanks for your quick reply. To be honest, our organization is so disorganized I'm not sure we even have any rules on this. Hypothetically, if my local allows dual membership, would NPC rules allow it? Or does it vary by each organization?

Thanks again!

KSUViolet06 · #5 11-30-2008, 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by rugbyhurts

KSUViolet06: Thanks for your quick reply. To be honest, our organization is so disorganized I'm not sure we even have any rules on this. Hypothetically, if my local allows dual membership, would NPC rules allow it? Or does it vary by each organization?

Thanks again!

Let me clarify, you would be eligible to participate in recruitment IF you officially ended your membership with the local. I don't believe the rules allow you to be in both. Even if they do, your campus rules may not allow for it. We had a local on our campus, and those girls were not permitted to rush unless they officially left the local because the SCHOOL had them on record as being members of the local.

rugbyhurts · #6 11-30-2008, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

Let me clarify, you would be eligible to participate in recruitment IF you officially ended your membership with the local. I don't believe the rules allow you to be in both. Even if they do, your campus rules may not allow for it. We had a local on our campus, and those girls were not permitted to rush unless they officially left the local because the SCHOOL had them on record as being members of the local.

Thank you for your help! Have a wonderful rest of your thanksgiving weekend! =)

Jimmy Choo · #7 11-30-2008, 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

Let me clarify, you would be eligible to participate in recruitment IF you officially ended your membership with the local. I don't believe the rules allow you to be in both. Even if they do, your campus rules may not allow for it. We had a local on our campus, and those girls were not permitted to rush unless they officially left the local because the SCHOOL had them on record as being members of the local.

Check with your campus for specifics. No one here can give you a definite yes or no. I know my local had no rule about having dual membership in an NPC and our local. We had girls join our local and later transfer and join a NPC on their new campus. We recognized them as alumnae. However, I know we had girls initiate and never formally resign their membership and later join another NPC on our campus. It didn't exactly make us happy.

Your campus my not prohibit it but I doubt they would look favorably upon it unless you had already removed yourself from your other GLO.

AlphaFrog · #8 12-01-2008, 06:39 AM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

In terms of NPC rules, you are eligible to participate in recruitment again. I don't know what your local co-ed group's rules are though.

If an NPC will take her, the local doesn't have much choice - they either let her dual-affiliate or term her membership. I don't think she specified if the co-ed was a social, service, or professional org. If it's not a social org, then there's not even need for discussion, because the rules only apply to social orgs. (as far as being able to join an NPC - her local may still term her depending on their rules).

mduff · #9 01-21-2009, 03:15 PM

Sorry if someone has asked this question and it has already been answered. I tried to read most of the posts, but I just dont have the time to read every single one.

Anyhow, my question is (and its for personal/financial reasons), how tough is it to deactivate from a fraternity? what process do you have to go through and is there a fee you have to pay? etc. etc. thanks in advance

** Edit, it is a NIC Fraternity.

#10 01-21-2009, 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by mduff

Sorry if someone has asked this question and it has already been answered. I tried to read most of the posts, but I just dont have the time to read every single one.

Anyhow, my question is (and its for personal/financial reasons), how tough is it to deactivate from a fraternity? what process do you have to go through and is there a fee you have to pay? etc. etc. thanks in advance

** Edit, it is a NIC Fraternity.

You should really ask someone in your fraternity as I'm sure it differs from fraternity to fraternity.

People can offer their 2 cents all they want here, but it's no use if your fraternity does it a way we non-members don't know about.