First of all, I'm sorry that happened to you. It can't be easy.
But the thing is, most girls who go through recruitment get cut by a group. Most girls get cut by a group that they really like . . . maybe not their favorite group, but a group they like nonetheless. And some girls do get cut by their favorite group. Some girls have the extremely painful experience of getting cut by every single sorority on their campus. And none of them ever find out why.
As difficult of an experience as that probably was for you, it's in the past and there's nothing you can do about it now. You're in another house, and you should be happy there. If you can't be happy there, you shouldn't be there at all -- there are probably other girls who would love to have a spot in the house. It seems to me like you are dwelling on this too much.
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