hi! I am in a sorority at a large school. I love the girls, that's why i pledged. However, not only do we have a bad reputation ("not fun" and "ugly"), but it seems that we get no respect. I understand that sorority "tiers" are typically made by people who have a LOT of time on their hands, but I can't help but feel that people are affected by the rumors, and listen to them. In reality, most of us are a lot of fun and pretty. I don't know what to do to change our reputation, and most importantly, get more respect on campus. I don't mind that "top tier" fraternities don't want to pair with us for things, as long as we are recognized as a legitimate group of girls.
any advice for us? thanks in advance