Getting a Bid even if...?

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Okay here's the thing. I'm wanting to join the Greek life on campus because I want to push myself to meet new people and have a great time. But, I don't drink (for personal reasons). I'm also nervous that I won't be able to get a bid. I'm not the most assertive guy ever but I don't blend in to the crowd. Let's just say I was the only guy at the rush event today wearing Converse shoes. (just an example)

The Kappa Sigma chapter i'm rushing currently keeps stressing diversity of members, so I'm hoping that includes me? lol I can tell that I would not be friends with all the brothers, but I could definitely see myself getting along with some of them really well. I don't know, I guess I'm just a little bit more nervous because I'm slightly quieter than your average Kappa Sigma in the chapter, so idk.

Thoughts?
Opinions?
Stories?
THANKS!