Advice needed
My daughter has gone thru recruitment and it was about as good an experience as one could have. ( my older daughter had a much more difficult experience) She was open to several options. In the end She got her first choice but she said after pref night she'd be happy enough with any of them. She's certainly very happy though that she got her first choice. The problem is that her roommate wanted that one also and didn't get it. She got what is considered a lower ranked sorority ( the one my daughter prefffed second but still liked. She wasn't focused on the rankings. She preffed last the one considered the very top sorority )The roommate is very unhappy and while she hasn't dropped she's crying about it constantly. She's makes my daughter feel bad. Like when an older girl in my daughters sorority dropped off a new sorority t shirt the roommate burst into tears. My daughter still likes the girl but having many sorority events make it more difficult to socialize with her. Any advice about how to best handle this situation would be appreciated.
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