Last night

AlphaSigLana · #1 02-10-2002, 10:47 PM

I was sober sis and one of my sisters I picked up told me and the other two sober sisters how one of our sisters was in the corned of the room having her boobs licked(sorry I didn't know how to make that not graphic). THis was at member's of a fraternity's house that we socialize with. This was a Mardi GRas party. Since I was not there do I write to standards about it? I never would have expected this from the girl. this is not normal behavior. I don't want ot be mean!!! It seems quite inappropriate to do this where many people can see.

33girl · #2 02-10-2002, 11:33 PM

If you didn't see it with your own eyes, you should not report it. After all, the girl you picked up probably had a few too...her eyes may have been playing tricks on her.

The1calledTKE · #3 02-10-2002, 11:33 PM

Well if she was there representing your sorority and she whipped out her boobs to get licked then I think the answer is obvious. It should at least be discussed with her.

Optimist Prime · #4 02-10-2002, 11:53 PM

well, it was a mardi gras party.

HeavenslilAngel · #5 02-11-2002, 12:49 AM

I agree that it should be discussed but you have nothing to tell standards except what someone told you and they are telling you the truth but yet you did not see the girl getting her boobs licked so it wouldn't do any good to report her to standards like 33 said.

DeltaBetaBaby · #6 02-11-2002, 01:09 AM

I think it depends on the consequences of reporting it. In my chapter, if the standards chair confronts you with a rumor and you deny it, she trusts that you really didn't do it. It does not mean you are in trouble if you go to standards, just that you may need a little guidance.

shadokat · #7 02-11-2002, 10:32 AM

If you didn't see it first hand, then talk to the folks who did and have them report her to standards board. You can always be used as a witness during standards board proceedings. This sort of conduct, while appalling to some, happens more than we'd like to admit!

Peaches-n-Cream · #8 02-11-2002, 10:54 AM

I think that you should talk to the flasher sister first. Find out what she has to say. I think that you should not report it because you didn't see it. Maybe the sister who told you should talk to standards. She might not have much credibility since she was drunk also.
We had a problem with a pledge getting really drunk and out of control, no nudity involved. Since I saw it, our Executive Board talked to her. The problem was resolved immediately. From that point on, pledging was dry.

ZTAngel · #9 02-11-2002, 12:28 PM

Unless you saw it for yourself, I wouldn't report it right away. I'd talk to the girl directly and see if she even remembers it happening (she may have been really drunk). Also, maybe you could ask the sister who did see it to report it.

The1calledTKE · #10 02-11-2002, 12:36 PM

Is being drunk really an excuse? Do you really stop thinking and do not realize what you are doing when you drunk? I know from a guys point of view guys know what they are doing when they are drunk, can't be sure about the gals though.

AlphaSigLana · #11 02-11-2002, 02:52 PM

Well I am not going to report her bc it is really not my business. Perhaps if this was typcial behavior I would say something, but since this is not like her at all she probably had a few too many drinks. It's hard bc I am a sexual assault advocate and most sexual assaults occur while drinking. Anyway I won't go into that.

shadokat · #12 02-11-2002, 02:54 PM

So you don't lose any of your inhibitions after you've had a few too many to drink?

You're a lucky guy!

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Originally posted by zntke711
Is being drunk really an excuse? Do you really stop thinking and do not realize what you are doing when you drunk? I know from a guys point of view guys know what they are doing when they are drunk, can't be sure about the gals though.

The1calledTKE · #13 02-11-2002, 02:57 PM

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Originally posted by shadokat
So you don't lose any of your inhibitions after you've had a few too many to drink? You're a lucky guy!

I may talk more but thats it. Girls may lose their inhibitions but they still know what they are doing. If the girl was drunk and did want her boobs licked she would have said no and walked off. If she was forced, that would be a different story.

shultzz · #14 02-12-2002, 01:09 PM

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Originally posted by AlphaSigLana
I was sober sis and one of my sisters I picked up told me and the other two sober sisters how one of our sisters was in the corned of the room having her boobs licked(sorry I didn't know how to make that not graphic). THis was at member's of a fraternity's house that we socialize with. This was a Mardi GRas party. Since I was not there do I write to standards about it? I never would have expected this from the girl. this is not normal behavior. I don't want ot be mean!!! It seems quite inappropriate to do this where many people can see.

whats the big deal.. you have sex dont you?

how come every time I am hooking up with a sorority girl one of her sisters tries to c*** block me?

AOX81 · #15 02-12-2002, 02:35 PM

I would have told them to get a room. Being intoxicated is not an excuse to make an ass out of yourself or embarass your sorority. A couple of years ago we had Liquid Olympics after Greek Week and it was basically a Mardi Gras party with drinking games. Greeks from every organization were there and one of my sorority sisters was drunk and was flashing her boobs to EVERY guy to get beads. Every campus has their "slutty" sorority and we are NOT them! I just about kicked her ass. I told her to put her shirt on or I was having a DD drive her home. The next day she thanked me but a lot of people, inside and outside of our sorority, didn't look at her the same afterwards. It's ok to have a good time but when guys that you may not know very well start licking your boobs out in public you might as well go get a job at Deja Vu.

I've been drunk TONS of times and I never do crap like this. I just get really talkative. I just have one thing to say...SELF-CONTROL people!!