Between Sex, Finances and Communication, which one is it? What would it be for you?

[cheerfulgreek]

I started a thread on the importance of finances in a relationship/marriage on a scale from 1-10. Well, as the chatting went on, people started talking about divorce. I always hear people say that the lack of sex, communication and/or finances are the biggest causes of divorce. I highly doubt it would start off as all three and if it did, that is one screwed up marriage.

If you were married or living with your bf/gf what would it be for you? Lack of sex, communication or finances? You're not limited to just one choice, but what's most important to you?

For me it would be finances, because I think it would have an effect on the other two. If a couple is financially stressed, it would effect sex because their minds would be on bills. It would effect communication, because with the financial stress I can't see how a couple would be on the same page.