What's the Best?

CodeBlue_R3 · #1 07-20-2001, 09:35 PM

What is the best way for a female to woo or get a guys attention?

What's the best thing a female has ever done for you?

What would be the best thing you'd want a female to do for you (keep it clean)

SigmaChiCard · #2 07-20-2001, 10:05 PM

once a girl had come outside of my apmt window all ready to serenade me, but chickened out but she actually had come to my window to do it...that's a pretty cute thing to do you could say...I hate her with all of my being now, but that doesn't mean he'll hate you

CodeBlue_R3 · #3 07-20-2001, 10:07 PM

funny you say that but i can't sing all that well he loves to be sung to too.

Miami1839 · #4 07-21-2001, 09:45 AM

I like this topic and was wondering what everyones thoughts are on this. How do you ladies like to get a guys attention or give him the hint. Whats the best way for a guy to woo you or give you the hint. At least in way thats classy.

Kevin

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CRMSNTiDEGRL717 · #5 07-22-2001, 01:15 AM

I'm usually low key when it comes to getting a guys attention, unless I'm out w/ some of my more "loud friends"(for lack of a better adjective). So, usually if I think a guy's cute or whatever and I notice him looking at me, I just make eye contact and do the looking away-looking back again thing. It usually seems to do the trick

Liz

pbpck · #6 07-22-2001, 02:08 AM

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Originally posted by Miami1839:
I like this topic and was wondering what everyones thoughts are on this. How do you ladies like to get a guys attention or give him the hint. Whats the best way for a guy to woo you or give you the hint. At least in way thats classy.

Kevin

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We could tell you, but this would take away from the "female mystique." Haha. C'mon girls, we can't just give away the secrets of the enigmatic courting rituals of females.

Miami1839 · #7 07-22-2001, 10:33 AM

pbpck, LOL Very true. I guess that would change the rules of the game and make things too easy. Maybe we could change the rules for some of us. ha ha. Man, if I could just hear what women are thinking for one day. I hate being single.

Of course I rather be single then if its not the right person.

Liz, very cool.

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Originally posted by pbpck:
We could tell you, but this would take away from the "female mystique." Haha. C'mon girls, we can't just give away the secrets of the enigmatic courting rituals of females.

Thrillhouse · #8 07-25-2001, 12:47 AM

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Originally posted by CodeBlue_R3:
What is the best way for a female to woo or get a guys attention?

What's the best thing a female has ever done for you?

What would be the best thing you'd want a female to do for you (keep it clean)

The way that I can always tell nondescriptly is the looking at you than looking back thing. That is an easy way to tell. Sometimes I need a road sign to tell me too, so I prefer not to have a girl get too subtle with me, lol.

CRMSNTiDEGRL717 · #9 07-30-2001, 08:27 PM

I hear ya Hootie

It'a a major pain in the ass when they just DON'T GET IT.

Miami1839 · #10 07-30-2001, 08:50 PM

As painful as it is at least you make the effort Hootie. As I've said numerous times before women should take the initiative and do the asking

Girls just dont know what its like to be a guy. Esp. for us shy ones.

Kevin

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P7A77 · #11 07-30-2001, 09:06 PM

I think the best way to "woo" someone is to be friends with him/her, without any intention of anything more. The best relationships always stem from friendships, since there's little to no pretense.

But as far as nutty flirting goes... once I was eating in the student union and someone I was just starting to date was walking by outside, saw me, mooned me with the butt flat against the glass next to my table, then just kept walking, without coming inside or anything. That got my attention. And since it was such a nice, cute ass, it got me the envy of everyone else there.

ilovemyglo · #12 07-31-2001, 10:33 AM

Since I am at home this summer and my guy is still in the city where we go to school (150 miles away) I drove down after work one night when I knew he was out with his friends. I left my car at the sorority house and had a friend drive me to his place. I left a trail of hershey's kisses and candles all the way from the door to his room and on the door I left a note with all the reasons I love him.. he came home at 1:30 drunk and all sweet and asking me to read the note cause he was to drunk to. I did and we had fun laughing about it the next morning.

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CodeBlue_R3 · #13 07-31-2001, 11:04 PM

These are excellent keep them coming guys

TinkerbellMTSU · #14 07-31-2001, 11:37 PM

GUYS:

The *BEST* way to break the ice with a lady you're interested in is to *COMPLIMENT HER SINCERELY*. This doesn't mean saying, "hey, you're hot!", or "nice boobs." okay? I'm talking something like "How'd you know all those answers in Spanish? You're really smart!" or "You have really pretty hair!" or something that's not perverted, okay?

Another good way is to say something witty like, "Can you believe Professor so-and-so gives us all our tests on Scan-Trons? He must be too lazy to grade them himself! I bet you did really well on it."

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***Tinkerbell***

~~~Don't worry, be happy!~~~

CodeBlue_R3 · #15 08-01-2001, 10:13 PM

It's true guys the compliment thing DOES work.

Also this month in Men's Health has 10 excellent ideas, read them and put them to work and see how your romance life changes.