Hook, Line and Sinker approach to meeting girls (for the guys).

damasa · #1 09-25-2001, 07:08 PM

so..guys....this is what I suggest to you, it may sound a bit off teh wall and you may think that you are acting like a psycho, but you are not, and I've found this to work to the advantage very very well. If you are looking for romance or friendship, all is fair, all is fun, all is simple.

You walk into your huge lecture hall, spot out the girl you might want to talk to, go up and sit right next to her ( asking politely if you can sit there prior to you actually sitting down). I mean right next to her, the seat where she is resting her arm on, next to her..hahah..
She might be thinking, "good lord this guy is a lunatic." She may also be thinking, "good lord, what is he doing." Nevertheless, stay with the game plan.So, now that you are sitting next to her, say hi, introduce yourself, and ask her what her name is. Once you know that. REPEAT IT WHEN SHE TELLS YOU. That's the worst, to ask a girl her name, have her tell you and then forget it soon after. Start talking to her, about simple things, maybe about something relating to class, maybe something not. From there, it's up to you, what I have suggested breaks the ice, you must do the rest.

My suggestions:
Ask her to study with you one night (and make it a night during the week for the first time anyway) If that goes good, ask her out for something.

Skip the studying, I want to take her out a.s.a.p! If this is how you feel, go for it, if she says she has a boyfriend, appeal by saying something along the lines of, "well, I only want to be friends" or something similar, because a great friendship might come from it.

for now..this is all..use it...and use it well my friends....

LOL
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Lil_G · #2 09-25-2001, 07:25 PM

Dude you're a fountain of knowledge tonight....

hey does this work with classes you're not even taking? E.g. i walk into a lecture hall of some other faculty and pull this stunt. And after the mission is completed, take off? That would be some funny S#$% for someone sitting behind this chick to see.

KillarneyRose · #3 09-25-2001, 09:42 PM

Hey Damasa! I'm not sure if I'm right or not, but are you the guy who got his ex girlfriend to come back to him by singing a song to her when your band was performing? I looked for the thread pertaining to that, but it must have been lost in the great purge. If that is you, I was just wondering how things are going now that you're back at school? (If its not you, excuse me, sometimes I imagine things

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DeltAlum · #4 09-25-2001, 11:42 PM

It's amazing how an absolute direct approach can work.

I was giving a speech in an Oral Intrepretation of Literature class and saw this really beautiful girl in this really short yellow dress in the front row.

I waited for her right outside the door of the classroom and asked her out to dinner (The class was at 4:00 PM)

We've been married for 31 years, although the second time I saw her was nearly a disaster. But that's another story.

damasa · #5 09-25-2001, 11:53 PM

yes...it is I..the one that sang "Hanging By a Moment" to my ex. We got back together, things are very very shaky right now. Not because we don't want to be with eachother, but because we go to school in different states and we are both busier than sin.

Btw...that's how I met her..although that was way back in high school (walked into her class and I wasn't even in it). So yea..that approach works too Lil_G. Try it

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Thrillhouse · #6 09-26-2001, 01:26 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by damasa
so..guys....this is what I suggest to you, it may sound a bit off teh wall and you may think that you are acting like a psycho, but you are not, and I've found this to work to the advantage very very well. If you are looking for romance or friendship, all is fair, all is fun, all is simple.

You walk into your huge lecture hall, spot out the girl you might want to talk to, go up and sit right next to her ( asking politely if you can sit there prior to you actually sitting down). I mean right next to her, the seat where she is resting her arm on, next to her..hahah..
She might be thinking, "good lord this guy is a lunatic." She may also be thinking, "good lord, what is he doing." Nevertheless, stay with the game plan.So, now that you are sitting next to her, say hi, introduce yourself, and ask her what her name is. Once you know that. REPEAT IT WHEN SHE TELLS YOU. That's the worst, to ask a girl her name, have her tell you and then forget it soon after. Start talking to her, about simple things, maybe about something relating to class, maybe something not. From there, it's up to you, what I have suggested breaks the ice, you must do the rest.

My suggestions:
Ask her to study with you one night (and make it a night during the week for the first time anyway) If that goes good, ask her out for something.

Skip the studying, I want to take her out a.s.a.p! If this is how you feel, go for it, if she says she has a boyfriend, appeal by saying something along the lines of, "well, I only want to be friends" or something similar, because a great friendship might come from it.

for now..this is all..use it...and use it well my friends....

LOL
d

LOL funny you mention it, this is a great way to meet women. Starting out talking about stuff like homework, or quizzes can lead into more social talk such as how was your weekend, etc. Couldn't have said it any better damasa.