The word is
real. No s at the end.
Real.
I have some friends I'd like to introduce you to:
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These marks are called punctuation. They end ideas so that your words don't seem to flow into each other, which often results in an unreadable heap.
To the OP, (in addition to the above introduction) I am sorry that your collegiate life was wrought with so many difficulties. Sometimes sorority life is simply not a practical option. Now that you are done with school, you could look into Beta Sigma Phi, a wonderful organization that fits a bit more easily into the post collegiate schedule but offers an active membership.
www.betasigmaphi.org