I have a ton of girl friends mostly from PSE and also from my dorm,and recently I made a bunch of new ones (like Tati!!) as well
1. I dunno, well if a girl is funny, talkative and has a sense of humor and seems "sensible" (like the stuff she says isn't all BS) then that would make me wanna talk to her.
2. If she seems too ditzy or talks BS, or like at work, if she seems to busy flirting w/ our male coworkers instead of working then that would make me wanna hate her.
3. I've never terminated a friendship w/ a girl for no reason. I'm a fan of talking things out...even if I hear nasty rumors or whatever I still would go straight to the source and get my facts straight.
4. Hmm...I never "rejected" a girl--if I dont wanna be friends w/ one usually they dont really pursue it or anything so i guess they feel the same about me too! lol.
5. I'm intimidated by girls who are...okay i dont wanna start a flamer here but the type who are like, "yeah i live with my boyfriend who's in mid 30's and although im just 21..and i love his kids"...although if the girl in question is a good person at heart...but ofc ourse, first impressions tend to freak me out....also, if they're sluts.
verbal anti greeks also intimidate me. =P
7. No, appearance doesn't matter at all!! cross my heart.
8. when it seems that they spread your private secrets around, or doesnt seem to be there when you need them, or seems to put a guy first (like they ignore u after acquiring a bf)then i stop becoming intimate w/ them.
9. opposite of that!!
10. religion,sexual orientation,race dont matter to me, but i prefer that the girl has the same taste in stuff i like, even though of course it helps if u guys debate about some things. but of course, it will be awesome if she shares the same addiction for shopping that i do!she doesnt have to be greek, but if she isn't then she shouldn't be one of the "haters"
11.maybe because sometimes they know the quiet ones get the guy...i dunno~
12. sometimes i introduce them to each other, but it happened one time that my ex best friend (we still talk but not as close anymore)actually got stuck like glue to my other friend that i introduced her to--they hang out without me! like theyre the ones who are best friends now. so now i try to keep it separate--high school friends, friends from work, greek friends, non-greek friends.
13. the usual makeup,clothes,boys, relationships, problems, grades,family...the list goes on and on.
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"To supress our feelings only makes them stronger"--from Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon