revenge?

[AlethiaSi]

there is a girl in another sorority at my school who started seeing my best friend and big bro in pi kappa phi.... he is in the army and was in afghanistan/iraq for about a year... and is returning today.

they started messing around before he left... but she started acting really possessive and got really drunk at one of my sororities parties- and slapped my big across the face b/c he was playing beer pong with one of my sisters... i had to carry her outside and she was like threatening to kill herself- and we had to drop her off at her sorority house- and they were mortified- but a friend of mine in her org said that isn't the first time she's done something crazy like that- and she's very dramafied...

every since then- i was weary of her- but andy said that she was sending him packages and naked pictures of herself- and that she was "waiting for him" to come back- and that she loved him(i guess they were together...)... yadda yadda yadda... i still think she's crazy and didn't approve- but wahtever- as long as he's happy right?

he emailed me the other day really upset and said that he found out through numerous people that she had been cheating on him and had made out with and gone home with at least like 5 guys... like andy wasn't going to find out!!

i'm soo pissed that she would think she could get away with this- and that she hurt him so badly....i know it seems crazy- but this girl needs to have some repercussions for what she did to him....

advice??

[Lady Pi Phi]

Originally posted by AlethiaSi
there is a girl in another sorority at my school who started seeing my best friend and big bro in pi kappa phi.... he is in the army and was in afghanistan/iraq for about a year... and is returning today.

they started messing around before he left... but she started acting really possessive and got really drunk at one of my sororities parties- and slapped my big across the face b/c he was playing beer pong with one of my sisters... i had to carry her outside and she was like threatening to kill herself- and we had to drop her off at her sorority house- and they were mortified- but a friend of mine in her org said that isn't the first time she's done something crazy like that- and she's very dramafied...

every since then- i was weary of her- but andy said that she was sending him packages and naked pictures of herself- and that she was "waiting for him" to come back- and that she loved him(i guess they were together...)... yadda yadda yadda... i still think she's crazy and didn't approve- but wahtever- as long as he's happy right?

he emailed me the other day really upset and said that he found out through numerous people that she had been cheating on him and had made out with and gone home with at least like 5 guys... like andy wasn't going to find out!!

i'm soo pissed that she would think she could get away with this- and that she hurt him so badly....i know it seems crazy- but this girl needs to have some repercussions for what she did to him....

advice??

Stay out of it. It's not your problem. If he was warned about her behaviour before and stuck with her. It's his problem.
If he had no idea she was a little "crazy", he does now, and it's up to him to decide. If he satys with her, he's a glutton for punishment...again his problem.
You've already told hom what you thought. If he doesn't take your advice...his problem. Let him deal with it.
I know I might sound cold, but he's a big biy and has to deal with his own relationships. If he wants to stay with her, then he's going to.

[PlymouthDZ]

I agree.
Don't get caught in the middle..

[James]

Ditto on what PlynouthDZ and LAdy Pi Phi said.

ITs not your concern.

Also, is he like socially handicapped or something? He barely started a relationship with her before she left and excepted her to stay loyal for a freaking year while he is away? Knowing she is a lush and a sorority girl?


To quote the movie American Wedding:

He needs to stop masturbating its rotting his brain.

OH and you know more than your fair share of dramatic people.

[moe.ron]

Get involved, make their drama your drama. Have a fun and exciting life.

[sororitygirl2]

It's not your place...

Anyway, it sounds like nothing ever happened. He can come back and tell her it's over and move on. If she flips, he can just call the police.

Why do people make things so difficult?

[sororitygirl2]

Originally posted by GLUE STICK
You seem to seek drama a lot! Maybe you could glue the naked pictures of her to yourself and run around campus yelling and screaming! Then everybody would know how crazy she is! And that you like to be involved with drama that has nothing to do with you! That would be great!

You make me laugh!!!

[AchtungBaby80]

Originally posted by moe.ron
Get involved, make their drama your drama. Have a fun and exciting life.

Heh heh heh...