SOOO SORRY!

bebe_cHiCk17 · #1 04-14-2001, 01:31 AM

IM SOOO SOWWIE ABOUT ALL THAT, THAT I SAID! I FEEL ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE! I HOPE YOU CAN FORGIVE ME.. I WAS SOOO UPSET/FRUSTRATED/ANGRY/CONFUSED.. AND EVERYTHING ELSE THIS AFTERNOON/EVENING! I HOPE YOU CAN ACCEPT MY APPOLOGY! I KNOW YOU DON'T KNOW ME AND I DON'T KNOW YOU, BUT IT WOULD REALLY MAKE ME FEEL A LOT BETTER! PLEASE.. THAT OTHER REPLY UP THERE WAS TO YOU TOO.. I JUST FORGOT THAT I WROTE IT TO ONE PARTICULAR PERSON! WRITE ME BACK PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE SO I WILL KNOW THAT YOU FORGIVE ME! I REALLY DO APPRECIATE YOUR ADVICE! THAT WAS A LONG REPLY YOU WROTE, AND I SHOULD HAVE BEEN MORE CONSIDERATE TO KNOWING THAT YOU HAD CLICKED ON MY PROBLEM, PUMPED YOUR LITTLE FINGERS UP AND DOWN ON THAT KEYBOARD WHILE THOSE LITTLE THOUGHTS RAN UP AND DOWN IN YOUR HEAD ABOUT WHAT THE BEST THING FOR ME TO DO WAS, AND THEN WENT DOWN AND CLICKED SUBMIT ALL ON YOUR OWN TIME! OH THAT WAS SO RUDE OF ME! I TOTALLY DESERVED WHAT Y'ALL SAID B/C IT WAS ME WHO COERCED Y'ALL TO THINK THAT! SOWWIE SOWWIE SOWWIE! ;0

(oh yeah.. i deleted that topic b/c i guess i can just try my best to help her out and get my brother in on helping her b/c im sooo worried about her. she's not old... someone referred to a 30 yr old. my sister is only 18.)

SusanL5000 · #2 04-14-2001, 03:01 AM

Lol, but really, you catch more flys with honey than vinegar........ guess they don't teach that in High School nowadays

.By the way, there are H.S. chatrooms out there, judging from most of your responses on this board, you might try those until you mature.

Billy Optimist · #3 04-14-2001, 03:02 AM

Its okay!! We all have bad days! I think its really sweet you wanted to help your sister.

bebe_cHiCk17 · #4 04-14-2001, 11:56 AM

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Originally posted by SusanL5000:
Lol, but really, you catch more flys with honey than vinegar........ guess they don't teach that in High School nowadays .By the way, there are H.S. chatrooms out there, judging from most of your responses on this board, you might try those until you mature.

o'kay now that was rude, and i'm sure that you aren't having a bad day. plus, that appology wasn't in any way directed toward you! How about you try to mature before you decide to tell me how to be. O'kay, thanks!

IowaHawkeye · #5 04-14-2001, 01:53 PM

bebe_cHiCk17
don't let the attitude/comments of one person discourage you from GC. they in no way speak fo rall of us, i for one love having you here and reading your posts

SusanL5000 · #6 04-14-2001, 02:04 PM

I would just like to say that a few of your comments to others on this board come off as rude, uncalled for and trivial. Good luck with your sister.

#7 04-14-2001, 07:00 PM

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Originally posted by SusanL5000:
I would just like to say that a few of your comments to others on this board come off as rude, uncalled for and trivial. Good luck with your sister.

I agree with Susan, sorry.

bubbles17 · #8 04-14-2001, 09:06 PM

Bebe, I really don’t see how you and Newbie are “personality twins” as you say. She would never come on here and disgrace herself to the rest of the GC community by talking crap about other states or other people. She also has much more maturity and class than you. She is a sweetheart—and I just don’t see your similarities by the way you have been posting.

SusanL5000 · #9 04-14-2001, 09:19 PM

Amen Bubbles17 and OhTeenyWahinie! I'm glad to see others share my opinion and I'm not just being touchy! BTW Newbie....you do have so much class and a great personality.... you guys were definitely NOT "switched at birth"!LOL!

bubbles17 · #10 04-14-2001, 09:26 PM

SusanL...you are deiniftely NOT being touchy! She rubbed me the wrong way when she remarked something about "don't bother to post dumb things like blah blah blah..." I was like "What?????" when I read Bebe's post about how she and Newbie were personality twins...I think not! At least not how they express themselves!

Me and Newbie have been emailing quite awhile--I do not see a resemblance!

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#11 04-14-2001, 10:13 PM

O.k. - please fill us all in on what happen? Right now I am seeing two women (bebe and newbie) you guys-both are in high school and the same age and one is being treated like crap and the other we all love. I'm sorry bebe but I've been emailing newbie and love her to death. BUT - your apology struck me and I need to know what happen to help you. Unless you said something radical.... like = kill all greeks -- I want to help you -

To all my greek sisters- If I am out of the loop - tell me but I am seeing a 16 year old girl here. Young and not knowing

If you disagree with me - tell me but I just feel for her.

luv! Sue

#12 04-14-2001, 10:35 PM

Hi Sue,

First of all, I was VERY OFFENDED by bebe's original reply for my response (in the financial struggle advice thread that has since been deleted). I had offered to help. However, my response was not satisfactory for her, therefore she felt the need to tell me "not to click the reply button" because I was of no help to her. Many of her posts have been rude.

Second, I know she has apologized profusely, but that shouldn't mean that I am obligated to accept her apology.

Third, just because she's only 16, young, and not knowing doesn't mean that we should be relenting and sympathetic, nor does this give her a reason to be obnoxious with some of her posts. I don't expect her to have a college/young adult frame of mind, but in the future I'd hope that she THINKS about what she posts before actually doing so.

I see no problem with you and the others sympathizing for her, and it is not my intention to change your opinions of her. It's okay that you feel for her, but I sure don't. Sorry.

bubbles17 · #13 04-15-2001, 12:03 AM

ISU_XO--She basically told us GC's not to bother pushing the reply button if we were to say anything "dumb like OTW's reply." Let me tell you--I have not encountered anything but postive here on GC--but when I saw her post, I was angered, because OTW offered very good advice, but apparently Bebe didn't find it to her liking--so she goes and calls it dumb.

Plus, in my California thread, she has to go and shout out some insane number, saying that 48333920 (or whatever, something like that) Californianss have left CA for Texas. For her information--I am not looking for you to bash CA in my Cali thread--I am looking for CALIFORNIANS who can give me info about CA. She does not like CA--OK. WEll, she also doesn't have to bash CA in my thread TWICE in favor of Texas. I already told her I don't like Texas, I want Californian's opinions on CA--NOT TExas vs. California. She just is not getting it--or something. I don't know where her anger is coming from--it's just very rude, and I told her that "she ought to be more cordial if she would like to get more replies" (In response to her "don't reply if it's dumb.")

As for her vs. Newbie--she had said in Newbie's thread that she and Newbie are personality twins--well I just don't see it. They may enjoy the same hobbies--but to me, she and Newbie are worlds apart, in that NEwbie has respect for others, and has class and poise. They are also worlds apart in attitudes.

[This message has been edited by bubbles17 (edited April 15, 2001).]