Well pansies you may be able to put on your cake. I wanted pansies in my floral arrangements but my florist said that due to their stems, pansies dont do well in water because they like teh soil. One idea though for the reception is that you can have those posts with teh brown mossy stuff lining it with pansies in there.'
I'm getting married in May. Four of my sisters are bridesmaids and one of them is also reading scripture. I'm giving them a special gift of kite lavalieres to put in their bouquets. I wanted to do the black and gold ribbons in their bouquets but their bouquets will have buttercup colored roses with a purple filler flower in it so I'm not sure that would look right. (That bouquet idea actually came from a wedding picture from a Theta magazine!).
They are also singing "theta Love" at some point, probably at the reception.
I went to my big sister's wedding yesterday. We surrounded her at the reception on the dance floor and screamed our cheer at her.

Since the same girls will be in my wedding I have a feeling that's going to be happening to me too
Back to the lavaliere, you may be able to take that or a kite shaped lavaliere and attach it somehow to your garter or sew/fix it into the dress somewhere. I'm thinking about this as a possibility myself.
At one point (and i have seen this in pictures in the Theta magazine as well) gold colored dresses for the bridesmaids and black dresses for the other attendents, but my wedding is a May wedding, so I thought pastels and spring time colors with buttercup colored dresses would be better.
I am using some pretty pansy decoration stuff (courtesy of Patti) at my rehearsal dinner, bridesmaids parties, and bridal showers.