A question for BGLO ladies

sweet angel · #1 12-03-2000, 07:03 PM

Hello all!
(There is no disrespect intended in the post-anything that I said that was out of line was said out of pure ignorance which I sincerly apologize for!)

I was wondering if you had any chance of being in a org. if you missed the informational at the beginning of the year...I have really late classes, so I wasn't able to make it to the sorority's informational. Do I/should I to wait until the next informational to express intrest? I know people in the sorority, but they aren't aware of my interest yet. So, what is the correct way to approach them with my intent to become a member? I don't want them to think that I'm disrespecting them or the org. I've seen the word discretion used...is it ok to e-mail them? I've already looked over the information on the website and have been around some of the members...is there anything else that I need to know? I want to make an educated choice... I know I'm probably asking for more than you are able to answer, but I truly appreciate any answer to my questions so I can further my quest...

[This message has been edited by sweet angel (edited December 03, 2000).]

The Researcher · #2 12-03-2000, 08:41 PM

Be careful of what you ask around here. There's alot of tension.

Finer Woman10-A-91 · #3 12-04-2000, 01:14 AM

No disrespect has been taken.
Sweet Angel,
If you were personally invited by a member, the courteous approach would be a card/note of apology with a thank you and brief explanation.

Otherwise, if you want to be part of the team, you have to get on the field!
Where there is a will there is a WAY.
Make NO EXCUSE.

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Originally posted by sweet angel:
Hello all!
(There is no disrespect intended in the post-anything that I said that was out of line was said out of pure ignorance which I sincerly apologize for!)

I was wondering if you had any chance of being in a org. if you missed the informational at the beginning of the year...I have really late classes, so I wasn't able to make it to the sorority's informational. Do I/should I to wait until the next informational to express intrest? I know people in the sorority, but they aren't aware of my interest yet. So, what is the correct way to approach them with my intent to become a member? I don't want them to think that I'm disrespecting them or the org. I've seen the word discretion used...is it ok to e-mail them? I've already looked over the information on the website and have been around some of the members...is there anything else that I need to know? I want to make an educated choice... I know I'm probably asking for more than you are able to answer, but I truly appreciate any answer to my questions so I can further my quest...

[This message has been edited by sweet angel (edited December 03, 2000).]

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Ghostface-Killah · #4 12-04-2000, 07:55 AM

Well, Although we all have different ways of doing business I think most people like to know what's going on, your interest in the org. and/or why you missed the informational. That happened to me WAY back. What I did was tell one of the members and they took it from there. I suggest you tell one of them; or if you want ask when th next information is. Some people have two a semester. They would never know if you don't say so.
GOOD LOOK BABY GIRL!!!!!! It might be a looooooong hard road. HE HE!!!! For real, the best to you. STAY FOCUSED REGARDLESS!!
"She who asks is a fool for a day. She who does not, remains a FOOL for life."

No Limit SOldier
SIGMA GAMMA RHO Sorority, Inc.

Ghostface-Killah · #5 12-04-2000, 08:01 AM

Hey FINERWOMAN,
Tell Sweet Angel about excuses- HE HE HE HE HE!!!
Sweet Angel, please don't get offended, it's a "little" greek joke. Never give excuses baby girl.

NO LIMIT SOLDIER!!!!!!!!

12dn94dst · #6 12-05-2000, 01:44 AM

SweetAngel, I agree with what both FinerWoman and Ghostface have said. A direct, face-to-face meeting is best. Best of luck.

Finer Woman10-A-91 · #7 12-05-2000, 04:13 AM

Hee hee hee...gonna keep my mouth shut.

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Originally posted by Ghostface-Killah:
Hey FINERWOMAN,
Tell Sweet Angel about excuses- HE HE HE HE HE!!!
Sweet Angel, please don't get offended, it's a "little" greek joke. Never give excuses baby girl.

NO LIMIT SOLDIER!!!!!!!!

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Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Incorporated...Every Finer Woman's Dream!

RHOyal-Silence · #8 12-05-2000, 08:34 PM

sweet angel,
i know a ayoung lady who was interestd in my sority but for very good reasons she could not attend the interest meeting. if she did not have the courage to inquire information, then i would not have a special soror today.

Ghostface-Killah · #9 12-05-2000, 10:21 PM

FINER_WOMAN:
HE HE HE HEHE!!! I am keeping my closed too!!!!!

Oh!!!!1 you did not finish telling about the event the Qs had- Were youthe one at the turkey station? OOOOOOHHHHHHHHH!!!! I was the ham station. REMEMBER!!!!!

Sister-friend
HOLLA BACK!!!!!!

NO LIMIT!!!!!!!!!!!