Mo' Betta Motivation

[Ideal08]

Sorors and SFs, I get these motivational messages every week or so, and thought I would share this one with you all. Enjoy!!


It's often a real challenge to grow and change when you are around the same
people and environment that are toxic, negative and critical. You may feel
like an outcast because you're tired of living below what you know you
deserve. You may feel
misunderstood and even betrayed.

Success is a do-it-yourself journey. Don't allow others to keep you down and
hold you hostage because of your past, your environment, the color of your
skin or your temporary obstacles. Stand up for yourself. Speak up for
yourself. Walk away from the playa haters and go for your dream and goals.
You' can't afford to turn back,
sit down, give up, compromise, procrastinate or take your eye off your goal.
Don't settle for less, mess or stress. This is your life. This is your year
... so get in gear!

Stay in the Light, Jewel Diamond Taylor, Motivational Speaker and Author

[serenity_24]

I am so glad that you posted this.

About a year or two ago, I cut all ties to people in my life that I felt were not bringing anything positive to share in our friendship. It was really hard to do because some of these people I had known since grade school, and I already had a limited number of people in my life anyway. I decided to do what was best for me at the time, and since doing so I've been so much better off. It's like a load has been lifted and I feel more free to excell and there is nothing holding me back.

[chynadall]

I can truly relate to this... I too, recently had to sever some unhealthy relationships that I had in my life, most of them were friends. But it can become more difficult when sometimes the "toxic" people are within your family. Now, I feel that things are starting to look up and I feel so much better.

[Conskeeted19]

Soror,

I like reading motivational notes. Where do the motivational messages that you receive come from? Please feel free to email me any message that is motivational.

Conskeeted19

[Ideal08]

Originally posted by Conskeeted19:
Soror,

Where do the motivational messages that you receive come from?

Conskeeted19

Soror, the actual email comes from jewelmotivates@aol.com. I really can't remember how I got on the list to receive the emails, but I'm sure that you can email her and request to be added to the list. I checked the website, www.jeweldiamondtaylor.com, and I didn't see a link to anything to get added to the list. I love receiving these, they always seem to arrive right on time. Her books are really good, too, in case you haven't read them. They're relatively short and easy to read. Not to mention she seems like a really down to earth person. I have emailed her a few times, and she ALWAYS responds. Some of her motivational emails are actually emails that she has received from people who are going through something, and she sends their email (anonymously, of course) along with her respones. It's really cool. Let me know if you get added to the list. If not, I will start to forward them to you!! Maybe I'll start posting some of them to the board. I'm all about spreading positive messages. We are bombarded with so many negative images throughout the day, we all could use a little positivity in our lives!

[Conskeeted19]

Soror,

Thanks!

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You are the master of your own destiny!

[Ideal08]

Anytime, Soror, Anytime!

[Ideal08]

Another bit of Mo' Betta Motivation, courtesy of Jewel Diamond Taylor:

Watch what the losers in life do and don't do it.
Watch what the winners in life do and learn from them.

Don't you dare give up just because of that challenge you're facing right now. Take in a couple of deep breathes and place your thoughts on a higher train of thought. Surely there is something you can say, think, do, pray or let go of that will allow you to stay in peace rather than fall to pieces.

Stay in the Light, Jewel Diamond Taylor, Motivational Speaker and Author



[This message has been edited by Ideal08 (edited February 06, 2001).]

[exquizit]

Boy! Did I need that this morning! Thanks for sharing

[toocute]

Originally posted by Ideal08:
Another bit of Mo' Betta Motivation, courtesy of Jewel Diamond Taylor:

Watch what the losers in life do and don't do it.
Watch what the winners in life do and learn from them.

That is AWESOME and so true!

[Ideal08]

Generally speaking, a woman's emotional enemy to conquer is the fear of loneliness and the loss of a sense of belonging. Generally speaking, a man's emotional enemy to conquer is the fear of rejection and loss of identity/status/power. We can all be hurt by someone whether it is in business, marriage, friendship, parenting or in a team effort (i.e., sports, committee). There is always the possibility that someone will let us down, not show up, leave us behind, go their own way, not measure up, not keep their promises or commitments or in some disappointing way not be who or there when we expected them to be. Take some time to evaluate your feelings, fears and expectations. Take some time to evaluate your personal and professional relationships with people. Be willing to work on them with open communication, self-esteem, realistic expectations, love and a focus on the goal, intention and success of the relationship. People in your life can either subtract, divide, add or multiple your joy or misery. Keep your distance from the "energy vampires" (you know those people who drain you of your peace of mind, joy, faith, hope, dreams and positive energy). Don't let someone drive you crazy when it's within walking distance Don't spend major time on minor issues. Don't spend major time with minor people. Being too independent, too dependent or codependent is dangerous and not productive. Work on becoming interdependent which can create more happiness and rewards for everyone concerned. There are people in your life right now who are shaping your life, depending on you, watching you, praying for you, helping you, believing you, loving you. And there are those you are discouraging you, misunderstanding you or not concerned about you. Make sure you know who is on your side and nurture and develop those relationships.

by Jewel Diamond Taylor, the Self-Esteem Dr.
Motivational Speaker and Author

[Ideal08]

"What you ardently desire, sincerely believe in, vividly imagine, enthusiastically act on, must inevitably come to pass."
- Paul Meyer

"The most pathetic person in the world is someone who has sight but has no vision." - Helen Keller

"Hindsight is helpful only if you learn from your mistakes. When you think small and limit yourself, you are shortsighted. If you are in a state of denial, anger or fear , they can blind you from seeing your solutions. Tunnel vision is only seeing what is happening to you right now. When you walk by faith and not by sight, you are believing in God's promises. Insight comes from wisdom and experience. Foresight will prompt you to be proactive, reduce stress and seize opportunities. How is your vision?

from Jewel Diamond Taylor, Motivational Speaker and Author of
"Success Gems", "Sisterfriends" and "You Are Too Blessed to Be Stressed."
email - jewelmotivates@aol.com
phone - 323-964-1736

Tickets are still available to celebrate Women's Month in March
Jewel Diamond Taylor's "Stay in the Light" Breakfast is scheduled
for Saturday, March 10, 2001,
9:00 AM
Reign Restaurant, Beverly Hills, CA

Group tickets available
No tickets will be sold at the door
call 323-974-2513
email - joypromotes@aol.com www.enjoypromotions.net

"Stay in the Light"

[Ideal08]

Self-esteem is not your ego.
Self-esteem is the ability to believe in yourself.
Self-esteem is the courage to stand up and speak up for your rights, your beliefs,
your dreams and your self-worth.
Self-esteem is how you see yourself.
Self-esteem starts from within and radiates without.
Others will treat you as you treat yourself.
Have the courage today to stand up to any obstacle, enemy or fear.
In the midst of a crisis, believe that you are a conqueror.

Believe in yourself right from the start.
Believe in the magic that's inside your heart.
Believe in these things not because I tell you to.
Believe in yourself, as God believes in you.

from Jewel Diamond Taylor, The Self-Esteem Dr.
Author, Speaker, Radio/TV personality
Thought for the Day 323-964-4070
Goal Mind Resources, Inc.
4195 Chino Hills Pkwy
Chino Hills, CA 91709
909-899-3697

[Ideal08]

On your journey of life you may think you've taken a wrong turn somewhere. You may feel tired and discouraged. Don't give up because your plan didn't work out. Don't give up because you didn't get the answer you wanted the first time. Don't give up thinking others don't see or appreciate you. Sometimes the race is not won by the one with the most talent, but the one
with the most tenacity.

"I hated every minute of the training but I said, "Don't quit. Suffer now and live the rest of your life as a champion." Author
Muhammad Ali


Stay in the Light,
Jewel Diamond Taylor, Speaker and Author

[Ideal08]

ATTITUDE

I can remember getting laid off a job years ago and feeling like I was just freed off the plantation. Other co-workers were bitter, frantic and revengeful. Now I saw it as my chance to really start speaking full-time instead of part-time. This was an open door of opportunity and I walked through it.

I recall visiting a friend in the hospital sick, feeling depressed, afraid of missing time from work and fearing death. During that same time I remember my brother-in-law feeling sick, tired and stressed and he said to me, "Well, God has got my attention now to slow down, change my eating habits and spend more time with my family."

What's the difference in these scenarios? ATTITUDE, PERCEPTION and FAITH. The same thing can happen to two people and one will see an opportunity, a blessing, a revelation or a push to grow. While the other person will perceive doom, gloom, fear, bad luck, pain and punishment.

Check your attitude. How do you "perceive" and "react" to the circumstances in your life? Can you look at your situation from a different angle? Do you see the gift, the opportunity, the hidden blesson? Life is full of ups and downs, changes and unpredictable situations. Develop a positive attitude, gratitude, flexibility, a sense of humor, health, savings, good relationships, faith and courage to endure and enjoy life more. Don't give up. When you're feeling down...God is UP to something. Your pity-party, pain and blame will only block your vision to see clearly and think clearly. Stay in the Light! Stay equipped so you can't be whipped by the troubles of the world.

excerpt from the book "You Are Too Blessed to Be Stressed" by Jewel Diamond Taylor. Author, columnist, radio/TV personality, speaker and the "Minister of
Motivation".