help a sister cope with a break up

[amanda6035]

So I have this sister who is "finally" breaking up with this guy she's been dating for 3 years. (Patsy, if you're reading this you better not mention a word to her!) I dont want to get into reasons why, but this is definitely for the best, and myself and another sister who she's very close to want to be there for her when she needs us.

Does anybody have any advice on things to say or things to avoid saying in such a circumstance? She's already said that she wants to keep very busy, very active very social the next few weeks so that she doesnt mope around all the time about it. Hopefully, with recruitment coming up and the next 3 or 4 week being so hectic the initial shock and drama will have passed. After a 3 year relationship, i can imagine it's going to be very hard for her.

Any advice if any of you have been in a similar situation and things your friends have said or done to help make things a little bit easier for you?