Chicks that annoy/smother you.

cashmoney · #1 05-27-2005, 09:59 AM

Anyone else have the same problem as I, I have a girlfriend that is annoying the shit out of me and it feels like I'm being smothered. I don't know what to do about it or what it's supposed to mean. The girl is planning on moving in with me in August.

Last week she stayed with me 5 days and by the 5th day I was like "get the fuck out of here!" in my mind. I didnt even want to hit it by the 5th day. And thats another thing, "hitting" it. I can't stand having sex with this girl. It's so boring and 1/2 the time I don't even get a nut....i just fake it. Its like she wants to have sex all the freaking time and 1/2 the time I don't. And then she gets mad or feels "unacceptable" when I just roll over and pass out. I see the feeling in her eyes when I talk to her. 1/2 the time I have sex with her I imagine its some other chick Ive banged that kind of looks like her or some pornstar just to bust a nut. And it's also like we're in competetion with each other as far as who looks the best. My body is looking good right now, I'm in excellent shape/on a cycle and now she's being miss insecure over there and she's about to get fake D tits in 3 weeks.....and I think it's inorder to keep up with the types of bitches that she knows will be flocking to me in about a month at the rate I'm going.

On the smothering thing, I can't stand it when we're together and she always has to be on me. If we're laying in bed, watching a movie, she has to be on me. Or she's constantly kissing me at home, in the car, at a restaraunt, at the beach, everywhere! And another thing, she's always wanting to hold hands with me. It doesnt matter where we go....when we go out of the condo and there are other chicks around-----she's holding my hand. And the whole time she's doing that I'm sitting here thinking to myself " Ok, chicks only hold hands in public when they feel insecure around other women" so, naturally, I get agitated at that. I feel like she's trying to "claim" me as hers.

I want to talk to her about all of this and see how she feels. I'm really good at communicating my feelings but often it's at the expense of other people's feelings. So, how can I talk to her about all this without making her upset? She's like really sensitive and I'm trying to be sensitive to her sensitive feelings. She's a really good GF, don't get me wrong. She does all my laundry, cleans my entire condo up, cooks for me, wants to give me a blowjob all the time, goes grocery shopping for me 1/2 the time (she does it even though I already have food for my diet I'm on) but usually it's fattening food. Buys all these little things for me like candles from yankee candle company to make my place all smelly. She even went through all my clothes (which I had an assload) and picked out the stuff i don't wear anymore and took it to a consignment shoppe and got money for it.

So, any suggestions?

Also, just so you know my mindeset, I've also been kind of talking to my ex fiance (the ZTA) on the phone/txt mssg. I got a postcard in a few weeks ago from a Norwegien chick who was thinking of me while on vacation and I think she could have seen it. Ive also kind of been talking to my swedish chick (my breeder) who wants to come stay with me for 3 months. And then I've kind of been talking to this teenie-bopper from the gym but nothing in the dating sense.

CarolinaCutie · #2 05-27-2005, 10:08 AM

You should drop her. It will only get worse. And while I would avoid name calling and anything excessively rude, do NOT work hard to spare her feelings. Girls like this need clear messages about how you feel.

33girl · #3 05-27-2005, 10:08 AM

OMG Craig. Your story sounds EXACTLY like my friend who just broke up with her boyfriend (except for the nut part of course). If you don't feel attracted to her, end it NOW before it goes on any longer (I'm not sure how long you've been with here) and don't take emails or phone calls or anything, because if you do she won't get it.

Although if ANYONE touched my clothes and took them to a consignment shop - even if it was something I haven't worn since Bush the Elder was in office - I would open a can of whoopass.

cashmoney · #4 05-27-2005, 10:16 AM

Its not that I'm not attracted to her.....I love those domestic skills she has. And her family is like my 2nd family. Her dad was my Piano teacher from the time I was 8-18 yrs old. My brother even fucked her younger sister.

This girl was basically hand picked by my parents for me. I guess they have doubts on my selection of women, so they picked one out for me and told me to give it a shot. And I have. It makes sense with the whole two families thinking it's a perfect match type of thing and we're both from the same background. Literally, I don't know what the problem is on why it's not clicking. My mother tells me to give it more time and to really give her a chance. She's like 5'1.

UlChiOCutie26 · #5 05-27-2005, 10:27 AM

k, I stopped reading after "I can't stand having sex with her" part. If you don't enjoy this anymore, it's time to move it along!!!!!

You don't have to take my advice of course, because I get myself in some shotty predicaments with my BF. Oy VEY!

cashmoney · #6 05-27-2005, 10:27 AM

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Originally posted by CarolinaCutie
You should drop her. It will only get worse.

What do you mean it will only get worse? Like as in how?

cashmoney · #7 05-27-2005, 10:29 AM

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Originally posted by UlChiOCutie26
k, I stopped reading after "I can't stand having sex with her" part. If you don't enjoy this anymore, it's time to move it along!!!!!

If you didnt read the entire post, don't bother making a comment.

#8 05-27-2005, 10:39 AM

Drop her like a bad habit Craig, it will only get worse in that, if both of your families have put these ideas of grandeur and marriage in her head, the longer you wait, the worse she will take it, and the harder it will be for you.

33girl · #9 05-27-2005, 10:40 AM

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Originally posted by cashmoney
What do you mean it will only get worse? Like as in how?

Like as in she will get really REALLY possessive and emotional and maybe even make you go to a Celine Dion concert with her so you can hold hands to the Titanic song.

cashmoney · #10 05-27-2005, 10:43 AM

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Originally posted by 33girl
maybe even make you go to a Celine Dion concert with her so you can hold hands to the Titanic song.

Yea, well, thats the kind of girl she is. And anytime I tell her she's acting that way....she says she's not and her entire attitude changes. But arent women supposed to be like that?

cashmoney · #11 05-27-2005, 10:48 AM

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Originally posted by ADPiZXalum
Drop her like a bad habit Craig, it will only get worse in that, if both of your families have put these ideas of grandeur and marriage in her head, the longer you wait, the worse she will take it, and the harder it will be for you.

Normally I would drop any other girl in this type of situation. But for some reason I havent ended things. I don't know if it's because I know that in many instances in the past when my parents gave me advice on things and I didnt take it I ended up regretting it or it got me in trouble. And now, as I get older, I take their advice because it usually turns out for the better for me.

I want to know something from some of you. Those that say end it with her....have you been this girl in this situation and have already gone through this?

BobbyTheDon · #12 05-27-2005, 11:01 AM

craig,

why on EARTH would you have sex with a fat woman in the first place? i think you should rephrase your signature to "ugly women" instead of fat women. Because an ugly chick can be a butterface.

tis is all

oh and you are with a chick that is 5'1 88 lbs? and you weigh 230? and she wants D fake tits? is this the snatch from the gym?

i know the real reason why you are keepin her...

...its cuz you want to use her as a toothpick!

ULoChiOQTohnoYohKoOHnoProBono... i knew you wouldn't dump your man. You don't get my ten bucks. Ya chicken shiet!

j to the k homie...j to the k.

cashmoney · #13 05-27-2005, 11:07 AM

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Originally posted by BobbyTheDon
craig,

why on EARTH would you have sex with a fat woman in the first place? i think you should rephrase your signature to "ugly women" instead of fat women. Because an ugly chick can be a butterface.

tis is all

oh and you are with a chick that is 5'1 88 lbs? and you weigh 230? and she wants D fake tits? is this the snatch from the gym?

i know the real reason why you are keepin her...

...its cuz you want to use her as a toothpick!

Hahahaha....on the sig; because every guy has nailed a big one at least once.

On the girl..... no it's not the snatch from the gym. That bitch is hot as fuck but dumb as a brick. I feel really bad for her father, seriously. When/if that chick goes to school and comes near a pike house, she's done. If you can picture the ideal pike girl....this would be her. She's cool and she knows I have a girlfriend, and she's got a bunch of hot little teennie bopper friends.....but she's nothing more than a fuck.

ShaedyKD · #14 05-27-2005, 11:15 AM

Did she at least give you the money she got from the consignment shop, or did she go spend it on Yankee Candles?

Get out while the getting's good. (Don't know exactly what "the getting's good" means, but it seems like it would apply in this situation.) You've never listened to your parents advice before, why start now?

You disappoint me Craig. What entertainment will we have when our resident playboy settles down with a chick he doesn't even like to bang? I guess we'll have to rely on Bobby and his fart stories.

cashmoney · #15 05-27-2005, 11:19 AM

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Originally posted by ShaedyKD
Did she at least give you the money she got from the consignment shop, or did she go spend it on Yankee Candles?

Get out while the getting's good. (Don't know exactly what "the getting's good" means, but it seems like it would apply in this situation.) You've never listened to your parents advice before, why start now?

You disappoint me Craig. What entertainment will we have when our resident playboy settles down with a chick he doesn't even like to bang? I guess we'll have to rely on Bobby and his fart stories.

Well, she had them send me a check once they sold all the clothes. So....yea, I guess you could say she gave me the money.

I don't find Bobby's fart stories entertaining.