He hasn't called - what's the deal?

mu_agd · #1 05-09-2005, 01:34 PM

So I met this guy at the bar - he seemed like a nice guy, I mean, he spoke to me haltingly, but only when the other people at his table weren't looking. On the way out, he got my phone number - he called me about 2:30am, and we hung out for a little bit. well, one thing led to another, and we smashed. well, he left before i woke up at 8am for church, but he text messaged me to say he'd call me sometime. It's been a whole day, and he hasn't called - should I be worried? Also, how can I find out his name? His friends were at the bar again last night, or at least I thought they were the guys he was with - they said they didn't know him though. I'm stumped. GC, help!

valkyrie · #2 05-09-2005, 01:39 PM

Go back to the bar tonight and stay all night until you see him again. If he doesn't come in, hire a private investigator. Hopefully with a good description, the PI will be able to find him and then you can come back and let us know that you're practically engaged! I can't wait!!

jharb · #3 05-09-2005, 01:41 PM

OMG you need to call the cops because your future boyfriend is MIA!

Lil' Hannah · #4 05-09-2005, 01:42 PM

Maybe he died. You should just go back to the bar and get with his friends!

sageofages · #5 05-09-2005, 01:44 PM

I can't help it....resisting...resisting....

"Maybe he is not that into you"

Lil' Hannah · #6 05-09-2005, 01:50 PM

No no no he really loves you just keep calling!

valkyrie · #7 05-09-2005, 01:52 PM

OH WAIT YES if he called you, you have his phone number. DUH. You should still go sit at the bar tonight, but before then, call him. Pretend you're someone else so you can see if he mentions this hot girl he met last night and is really into and stuff. Like, pretend you're an old friend. If you don't get anything good, call again! Pretend you're the pizza delivery person looking for his house! Then pretend he ordered a cab and say "Hey, your cab's here!" Maybe if you do this often enough, you'll find out some super exciting info. about him, like where he lives! Then you can drive by his place!!!

Peaches-n-Cream · #8 05-09-2005, 02:52 PM

Maybe he is intimidated by your hotness.

KSigkid · #9 05-09-2005, 03:04 PM

As a guy, I would say it's best when the girl calls every day. You may want to try calling twice a day. Also, next time you see him, follow him home.

sugar and spice · #10 05-09-2005, 03:52 PM

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Originally posted by KSigkid
As a guy, I would say it's best when the girl calls every day. You may want to try calling twice a day. Also, next time you see him, follow him home.

I totally agree. Even if he goes home with another girl, you should follow him. OH and make sure you call at least once an hour or he might forget about you. MAKE SURE YOU DO THIS even in the middle of the night. Sure, it interrupts your sleep schedule, but it's worth it.

Lil' Hannah · #11 05-09-2005, 03:55 PM

What is the deal?

Coramoor · #12 05-09-2005, 03:57 PM

[quote]well, one thing led to another, and we smashed. well, he left before i woke up at 8am for church[/qoute]

...Haha!

sugar and spice · #13 05-09-2005, 04:00 PM

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Originally posted by mu_agd
well, he left before i woke up at 8am for church

Also, you may be having an identity crisis. Look into this.

KSig RC · #14 05-09-2005, 04:32 PM

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Originally posted by sugar and spice
Also, you may be having an identity crisis. Look into this.

how is finding the messiah an identity crisis?

-RC
--HI CONNIEBAMA

mu_agd · #15 05-09-2005, 04:34 PM

So I just tried to call, like you guys have told me to, and I got voicemail. So I left him a message telling him he needs to meet me at the bar tonight. *fingers crossed* that he'll show!!!