I can't believe he said this

CUGreekgirl · #1 01-02-2005, 05:22 PM

So I've been hooking up with "Jason" since August. He made it clear within the first week that we slept together that he was attracted to me physically, but he didn't really feel a spark as far as relationship goes. I'm quiet and he's loud and outgoing. But we continued to have sex on and off for the past 5 months. Well, I haven't seen him all month b/c he's been back in his hometown for vacation. We ended up talking to each other today, I go over to his apartment, and we hookup. After the whole thing we were talking about work and stuff and he ask me if I ever babysit indiviually (I work for a daycare and church nursery). I said yeah, since I do babysit a whole lot. He then says "well, i've been seeing this new girl and she has a 3 yr old son, so when we go out we might need someone to babysit for him"!!!

I just can't believe he said it. How awkward would that be???? The girl he f*cks babysitting so he can take the kids mom out on a date.

winneythepooh7 · #2 01-02-2005, 05:29 PM

Ummmm, ditch him?!

BobbyTheDon · #3 01-02-2005, 05:30 PM

PWUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHHAAHHHAHAAHAHh

Oh my god. That is just too funny. Are you going to continue to sleep with him? I mean, if you do then this dude truly is my hero. No, honestly he is.

James · #4 01-02-2005, 05:36 PM

you took the words write out of my mouth. I swear I was going to write that he was my hero also . . l

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Originally posted by BobbyTheDon
PWUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHHAAHHHAHAAHAHh

Oh my god. That is just too funny. Are you going to continue to sleep with him? I mean, if you do then this dude truly is my hero. No, honestly he is.

CUGreekgirl · #5 01-02-2005, 05:36 PM

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Are you going to continue to sleep with him?

Well, I would say a definite "No" to that BUT I've said I'm not sleeping with him anymore a few times but I end up giving in. What can I say, A girl gets needy sometimes!! I dunno though, after this I doubt I'll go back.

James · #6 01-02-2005, 05:46 PM

How does this fit into your other story?

http://greekchat.com/gcforums/showth...threadid=60443

ITs like a TV show where you miss a few episodes

I am so confused. Last time we left you, you were going to church to meet this boy Caleb that you wanted to sleep with.

But when you went to the bar that night you had a psychotic break down and didn't go home with Caleb, instead you went home with Random boy.

Was Random boy Jason?

Or were you sleeping with Jason while trying to seduce Caleb but some how ended in bed with Random Boy?

I need an episode review damit!

Untangle these plot points for us

OH, you have enough partners that you can't begrudge Jason having another one can you? That hardly seems fair.

Senusret I · #7 01-02-2005, 05:54 PM

See why I never post in the relationship forum?

CUGreekgirl · #8 01-02-2005, 05:54 PM

ah yes James, I was wondering how long it would be before someone put my entire story together.

No, Jason was not random boy. I've known Jason since August. RAndom boy I only met one night in december and don't remember his name. Jason found out about Random boy the day after it happened and wanted me to come over so I did and we hooked up. I honestly think Jason was turned on by the fact I slept with someone else.

I hadn't planned on giving up Jason until Caleb and I at least went on a date. Jason knows about Caleb. Caleb has no clue about jason (and i don't plan on telling him).

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OH, you have enough partners that you can't begrudge Jason having another one can you? That hardly seems fair.

Trust me, Jason has his share of women. (and I've only had one other partner (random boy) while I was with Jason).

Need anymore explanation??? Or have I covered it all

#9 01-02-2005, 05:58 PM

So what, you're just using him as a piece of ass, then?

That being said, especially when you're talking about being needy, you shouldn't go

when he uses you for the same purpose.

norcalchick · #10 01-02-2005, 09:13 PM

I would say stop messing with him. He's an idiot for asking you in that way and in that situation (right after you hooked up). If he wanted to tell you about the other girl, he could have just been upfront about and not ask in such a stupid way. So do you want to be with someone that stupid?

And do you want to mess with someone that is starting a new relationship? That would just be messed up for the other girl.

I'm sure there are other guys out there that are better (in bed) than him

sugar and spice · #11 01-02-2005, 10:26 PM

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Originally posted by OohTeenyWahine
So what, you're just using him as a piece of ass, then?

That being said, especially when you're talking about being needy, you shouldn't go when he uses you for the same purpose.

Word.

And guys? If this guy was truly hero-worthy, he wouldn't have let it slip that he was shtupping two girls (or more?) at the same time. Then he could have still gotten some from both of them. As it is, he seems kinda dumb.

Although I guess if you really need a babysitter . . .

Sistermadly · #12 01-02-2005, 10:44 PM

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Originally posted by OohTeenyWahine
That being said, especially when you're talking about being needy, you shouldn't go when he uses you for the same purpose.

OKAY?! I was going to ask you (1) where was your brain; (2) whether the "D" was good enough for you to totally lose ALL of your self respect and (3) in case you didn't hear it the first time, where was your brain?

BobbyTheDon · #13 01-02-2005, 10:47 PM

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Originally posted by sugar and spice
Word.

And guys? If this guy was truly hero-worthy, he wouldn't have let it slip that he was shtupping two girls (or more?) at the same time. Then he could have still gotten some from both of them. As it is, he seems kinda dumb.

Although I guess if you really need a babysitter . . .

nah dude. you read me wrong. I said that this dude is my hero if CUGreekGirl will continue to sleep with him. Which most likely she will do. Right CUGreekGirl?

James · #14 01-02-2005, 10:52 PM

No no no.

In Boy-Culture, the only thing cooler than the sweetheart-player, who has a bunch of girls on the string, is the cold-player that can treat his birds with utter indifference and manages to keep them even when telling it like it is.

On a side note, wouldn't it be neat if everytime he went out with the other girl he was paying her for babysitting?

So everytime he was with her she was gettin' some, and everytime he was with her rival she was gettin' paid.

Thats kind of a cool deal.

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Originally posted by sugar and spice
Word.

And guys? If this guy was truly hero-worthy, he wouldn't have let it slip that he was shtupping two girls (or more?) at the same time. Then he could have still gotten some from both of them. As it is, he seems kinda dumb.

Although I guess if you really need a babysitter . . .

CUGreekgirl · #15 01-02-2005, 10:55 PM

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I said that this dude is my hero if CUGreekGirl will continue to sleep with him. Which most likely she will do. Right CUGreekGirl?

Nope, nope, nope. I had a LONG talk with myself and even wrote a letter to myself about what an ass this guy is and I'm making myself read it anytime i get tempted to go over to his apt., plus the sex isn't even all that great to begin with, i've definitely had better.

oh... FYI, he's not sleeping with the other girl YET. They are still just in the "talking" phase. They have yet to go out on a real date.

AND we don't hookup when I know he has another girl. I don't want to be "that girl" who is sleeping with another girls boyfriend.