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Why would anyone?
Hi everyone!!
I'm trying to spin my head around this one, but I'm having problems with it...
A friend of mine went through rush and pledged a house...during the NM-ship, she didn't know whether she wanted to remain in the house...she kept teetering back and forth...
Well, she went ahead and got initiated...a month after initiation, she de-activated!! Her reasoning was that "I thought it might get better after initiation."
Okay...this may be plausible, but there's so much she now knows about her sorority and could've saved A LOT of money as initiation fees, badge fees, etc. can rack up a lot of money...I guess knowing how much my sorority means to me and how much more it means because of the rituals involved, that it seems crazy to me that someone would go through initiation only to drop out a month later...especially when they weren't sure they wanted to stay in to start with!
How do others feel about situations like these in your own houses? (P.S. my friend didn't pledge MY house...we were on two different campuses and she pledged a different house altogether...)
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