Woman want a Prince Men want a Porn Star

James · #1 07-03-2004, 10:10 PM

I was thinking the other day about how many movies have a woman meeting a handsome Prince and marrying him. And I thought, that must be an important part of "girl culture."

The dashing Prince sweeps them off their feet and into a better life . . . and of course marries them.

An example would be the Prince And Me, with Julia Styles.

http://www.princeandme.com/

But what do guys have? Who is our idol?

Well We have the movie "The Girl Next Door"

View trailer here: http://www.apple.com/trailers/fox/gi...oor/large.html

A story where a truly Hot Porn Star moves in next door to an over achieving geeky male and expands the scope of his life while making him a better person.

Oh and there is no mention of marriage.

For those of you having gender issues, this different approach to showing men and women's love fantasies should bve insightful.

sororitygirl2 · #2 07-04-2004, 03:55 AM

Another good example of this, for both men and women, might be "Pretty Woman." She gets her prince as he climbs the fire escape with roses, and he gets his dirty little hooker.

But, this begs the question, do guys really want a porn. star, or do they want a reformed porn. star? I haven't seen "The Girl Next Door," but I think they want a lady in the street and a freak in the bed, so to speak. I don't think any guy wants a girl who is truly filthy, they just think they are fun for awhile. They want a girl who is up for a good time, but who they can take home to their family too.

I also think that, for many men anyway, marriage is a part of their fantasy. It's just not on their mind from the age of six.

But eventually, they want it too. Who wouldn't want someone who would love and take care of you and fulfill your every need??? I think men and women ultimately have the same end goal, they just approach it in VERY, VERY different ways.

But, hey, call me idealistic, I could be wrong...

PhiPsiRuss · #3 07-04-2004, 12:48 PM

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Originally posted by sororitygirl2
But, this begs the question, do guys really want a porn. star, or do they want a reformed porn. star?

Reformed porn star who still has all of her professional skills.

Peaches-n-Cream · #4 07-04-2004, 02:02 PM

I know someone who married an actual Prince. If you weren't told who his family was, you wouldn't know. He was just a nice man who happened to have a royal title.

I don't know anyone who married a porn star.

cuaphi · #5 07-04-2004, 05:42 PM

Well, the old stereotype is that women want rich and men want hot. I think there is a certain biological element that created this primary desire. However, not every woman or man necessarily plays into it.

Now, I haven't seen the Girl Next Door either but I think the premise there was that she was a nice girl trying to get out of a bad situation. I don't think men want a woman who has been around too many times. Now maybe if she looked and performed like a porn star but only for one man, that might be the ultimate.

starang21 · #6 07-04-2004, 06:08 PM

i want a woman who is pure, elegant and is unsullied...

but somehow knows what she's doing without actually doing it.

starang21 · #7 07-04-2004, 06:09 PM

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Originally posted by cuaphi
Now maybe if she looked and performed like a porn star but only for one man, that might be the ultimate.

add brains and earning potential, that would be the perfect woman.

33girl · #8 07-04-2004, 08:46 PM

How about a prince as a porn star?

Not too sure what's going on here...

swissmiss04 · #9 07-05-2004, 10:06 AM

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Originally posted by 33girl
How about a prince as a porn star?

Not too sure what's going on here...

Yes. Perfect!

cashmoney · #10 07-05-2004, 11:06 AM

Well, my opinion is....all women are whores deep down. I can take a girl who doesnt really like sex and turn her into a feen who gets cravings throughout the day. Any woman can become that "pornstar" fantasy if you know how to turn her out right. True, it does take time..but it will happen. The girls who say this isnt true...they just havent ran across/becomed involved with a guy like me. It happens with every girl I've dated. And any guy thats experienced enough can do it....you just have to set some limits as to how far you go/what you do with her. Believe me, you can get to a point where you get too far in the porn star stuff to where you'll start treating her like a dirty bitch and not even realize it....while you've been dating for 2+ years.

Now, the same is true with chicks turning men. The guys that say "fuck all that marriage crap" just havent met the right girl. I was one of those guys. Besides, no matter what a guy says....he can tell whether or not he has a really good thing on his hands. Whether or not a guy messes a really good thing up depends on his maturity level and how he was raised.

sugar and spice · #11 07-06-2004, 12:18 PM

OMG 33girl, I am dying of laughter at that picture.

ADqtPiMel · #12 07-07-2004, 12:25 PM

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Originally posted by 33girl
How about a prince as a porn star?

Not too sure what's going on here...

Rawrrrrr. Break me off a piece of THAT prince.

_Opi_ · #13 07-07-2004, 01:34 PM

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Originally posted by cashmoney
Well, my opinion is....all women are whores deep down.

Whores? I don't think so. Sexual, maybe. But ALL women are not whores.