Wedding Band Recommendations

[ZTAngel]

I guess this is for all the married or about to be married GCers.

My fiance and I have started looking for wedding bands. He's adament about our bands matching which is fine (although I really LOVE the diamond bands but oh well) but we're running into a bit of a problem. We both don't want plain bands - we want some sort of etching/design on them. He has very big hands and I have very tiny hands (I'm only a ring size 5). The wide bands look best on his hands while the very narrow bands look best on mine. We haven't been able to find any bands that suit both of us. We went to a few mom & pop jewelers that were willing to do custom bands but they just weren't able to do the same etching on a narrow band that they do on the wider bands. There's not enough room on the narrower band or something.

Have any of you had this problem? What did you end up doing? We may end up going with a plain band although that's our last resort.