IF YOU ARE PISSED AT YOUR......CAN YOU.....

Conskeeted19 · #1 06-30-2001, 08:27 AM

A friend of mine was very upset the other day with her boyfriend. Eventhough they had been arguing, later on that night he wanted to COMMUNICATE ENERGETICALLY with her. However, she could not and would not because they were mad with eachother which caused more friction between them.

QUESTION

Do you have trouble COMMUNICATING ENERGETICALLY with your significant other if you are angry with him/her?

I will give my response later on......

Just curious

Chi_ZETABBW · #2 06-30-2001, 08:36 AM

Communicating Energetically as you say....is far more mental to me then it is physical. If we not getting along, we ain't getting it on, simple. I don't believe in staying angry,upset long, hopefully we can work out our problems before night-time. LOL

Serenity · #3 06-30-2001, 11:46 AM

I don't have a problem COMMUNICATING ENERGETICALLY when me and my honey are giving each other the silent treatment. I try to COMMUNICATE like no other time just to let him know he better shape up or we won't be COMMUNICATING no more.

Ideal08 · #4 06-30-2001, 02:43 PM

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Originally posted by Serenity:
I don't have a problem COMMUNICATING ENERGETICALLY when me and my honey are giving each other the silent treatment. I try to COMMUNICATE like no other time just to let him know he better shape up or we won't be COMMUNICATING no more.

I know dat's right!!

MissPradaLover · #5 06-30-2001, 03:00 PM

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Originally posted by Chi_ZETABBW:
Communicating Energetically as you say....is far more mental to me then it is physical. If we not getting along, we ain't getting it on, simple. I don't believe in staying angry,upset long, hopefully we can work out our problems before night-time. LOL

I agree with you on this one! There will be no COMMUNICATION ENERGETICALLY if things are not resolved before night-time or when he wants some.

Eclipse · #6 06-30-2001, 07:35 PM

Sometimes communicating entergetically is a good way to say "I'm sorry I know I messed up"

It depends on the way he approaches the situation...

Conskeeted19 · #7 06-30-2001, 09:29 PM

Personally, I don't give a darn what has happened. Give me some and %$#% the rest. When my ex and I would get angry with eachother, he would always do this little "thing", and I would say, "OOOOh I ain't mad no more I promise I ain't."

CrimsonTide4 · #8 06-30-2001, 09:45 PM

ROFLMAO @ you Conskeeted!

CodeBlue_R3 · #9 07-01-2001, 09:17 PM

I must say I have to agree-they get to feeling feeling touching touching I might have been mad but other things begin to smile! lol I know I'm crazy, but hey most women must admit when your man is mad what's the one of the first things you do. Try to make his third leg stand up.

The Original Ape · #10 07-01-2001, 10:41 PM

Although I agree with some of you that say they wont communicate energetically until they ironed out the kinks, I will admit that communicating energetically is one sure way of getting your mate's attention!

Sugar_N_Spice · #11 07-01-2001, 10:56 PM

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Originally posted by Chi_ZETABBW:
Communicating Energetically as you say....is far more mental to me then it is physical. If we not getting along, we ain't getting it on, simple. I don't believe in staying angry,upset long, hopefully we can work out our problems before night-time. LOL

I agree!!

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MissPradaLover · #12 07-02-2001, 04:23 AM

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Originally posted by Conskeeted19:
Personally, I don't give a darn what has happened. Give me some and %$#% the rest. When my ex and I would get angry with eachother, he would always do this little "thing", and I would say, "OOOOh I ain't mad no more I promise I ain't."

LMAO @ Conskeeted!! Girl, you're off the hook! I understand where you're coming from though! LMAO

BlueReign · #13 07-02-2001, 09:48 AM

Well I am with you also Conskeeted19. Me and mine are kind of going through a "break-up" thing right now. I told him to just come over and do that "thing" that you do so well and then leave cause I still can't stand your ass.

pointNclick · #14 07-02-2001, 10:48 AM

It depends on what I am angry about. If the anger is over something somewhat trivial (he showed up to my house late, etc.), then yes I could becuz my booger always find a way to make me laugh and get me over the silly stuff. However, it is serious (e.g. I saw some chick up in the ride or some heffa answered his phone), he need not call me for a few days and I will not repsond to his engertic attempts to talk with me. Period.

I am a true hard a$$ when I wanna be.

mela3 · #15 07-02-2001, 10:55 AM

pointNclick, I am feeling you on that. Sometimes a little communicating energy is all you need to make things right. Other times that kissing on the neck ain't working. eventhough it do feel gooooood!