1) When calling roll, instead of saying "here," each sister can name her favorite color, restaurant, fraternity, date, etc.... Pick one topic and see how many times you hear "Blue," "TGI Fridays," etc....
2) Do a pat on the back. Each member pats the back of the person to the front, back, right and left of herself.
3) Group massage. Each member gives a quick back tickle to the person to her left. Then switch, and scratch the back of the person to your right.
4) Song Break. Teach an ADPi song to the group with the help of the music chair and the music committee. Or your seniors.
5) Celebration letter. Write a letter to a sister who has made a difference in your life, in celebration of your friendship. Read it a loud, give her the letter in a frame and a hug. Next week in chapter, she will write a celebration letter to another sister. And so on....
6) Read an inspirational story from a book like Chicken Soup for the Soul. Make it brief. Share this duty with the chaplain.
7) Start a "Warm Fuzzies" cork board. First, in chapter, take turns reading this story:
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Then, start a bulletin board with bits of scratch paper where sisters can leave inspirational notes and thank you messages for each other, little "Warm Fuzzies" to make them feel loved. Your chaplian can assist.
8) Send a list around to the chapter in meeting, or before, at dinner, asking that sisters list their accomplishments for the week (A+ on a term paper, got an internship, was elected student body pres, gave a sister a ride to class, etc.) Pick two at random and given them little prizes (a bag of candy tied with some ribbons, etc.)
9) Do a group stretch-- everyone stands up and stretches, does one jumping jack, etc. Do a quick talk about the importance of keeping your body active and eating right in order to stay healthy and succeed in school.
10) Ask three sisters to tell a clean joke each to the chapter. Get them laughing. Do a quick talk about the importance of laughter in your life.
11) Make "classy claps" -- using a bit of blue ribbon, a bit of white ribbon, and clear "diamond" beads, string them together on a diaper pin and pin it to your backpack as a constant reminder to be an ADPi Lady.
12) Violets to you. This is great after a retreat. Cut out large violets and tape one to each sisters back. Everyone walks around with a pen and writes a cheery message on your violet on our back. Hang it in your room
13) Make pin pillows. Get a bit of stuffing, fabric and thread and make pin pillows for your badge!
14) Get toiletry items, craft materials and small bags. Decorate the bags with messages for the residents at the RMH and stuff the bags. Drop them off at RMH as goody bags for the residents.