Sexual Fantasies men and women . .. .

James · #1 05-30-2004, 10:25 PM

I don't know if you have ever discussed fanatsies with your SO before . . .

But I have had past GF's bring it up and they'll ask what my fantasies are and I have to wrack my brains.

I don't think I, and most men, really have fantasies per se . . . I mean we think about sex .. . a lot . . but not in terms of elaborate scenarios like women seem to.

Women have descriptions of scenes, people, props, like little playlets.

So finally I saw Bill Maher comment on this. He said our fantassies just don't mix.

Your fantasies bore us. Our fantasies disgust you.

Because you rarely see a female fantasy playlet where the Handsome PRince runs across a field of green with floating butterflies to the tune of some romantic song and the ejaculates all over her breasts and face.

What can I say, just a difference in the genders

KillarneyRose · #2 05-30-2004, 10:34 PM

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Originally posted by James
Your fantasies bore us. Our fantasies disgust you.

You might be surprised; sometimes women like to get dirty too!

UKDaisy · #3 05-31-2004, 04:20 AM

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Originally posted by James

Because you rarely see a female fantasy playlet where the Handsome PRince runs across a field of green with floating butterflies to the tune of some romantic song and the ejaculates all over her breasts and face.

What can I say, just a difference in the genders

I had the best mental picture of this until the ejaculating on face part....... oh well

I think thats soo true though. Most guys have to really dig up for ideas, and most of them are kinda not what girls fantasy's are.

PhiPsiRuss · #4 05-31-2004, 01:24 PM

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I had the best mental picture of this until the ejaculating on face part....... oh well

I would understand why women are repulsed by ejaculate on there faces, except that they happily put other types of gook on there face, and happily keep it on for hours on end.

Corsulian · #5 05-31-2004, 01:42 PM

Yeah the conversation for me goes like this:

"so do you have any fantasies?"
"ummm...I'd kinda like to have sex tonight..."

swissmiss04 · #6 05-31-2004, 02:23 PM

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Originally posted by PhiPsiRuss
I would understand why women are repulsed by ejaculate on there faces, except that they happily put other types of gook on there face, and happily keep it on for hours on end.

Makeup will never seem the same...

PhiPsiRuss · #7 05-31-2004, 02:34 PM

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Makeup will never seem the same...

I wasn't thinking about makeup. I was thinking about stuff like this:

erniegurl00 · #8 05-31-2004, 02:55 PM

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Originally posted by PhiPsiRuss
I would understand why women are repulsed by ejaculate on there faces, except that they happily put other types of gook on there face, and happily keep it on for hours on end.

Yes, I think a lot of women are repulsed. Ugh I am.

So what is it about this that guys like???

PhiPsiRuss · #9 05-31-2004, 03:03 PM

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So what is it about this that guys like???

I've never found that appealing. I think that some guys might like to sexually mark their territory. This is really popular in Japan, where they have bukake films.

BobbyTheDon · #10 05-31-2004, 03:19 PM

the politically correct term is " skeet skeet"

sororitygirl2 · #11 05-31-2004, 03:34 PM

Don't generalize - lots of us girls have dirty fantasies. I'm not totally against a little "skeet skeet" and handcuffs...

FiReKraCkEr · #12 05-31-2004, 03:38 PM

I like tramp-o-lines...

bwahahah....

swissmiss04 · #13 05-31-2004, 04:33 PM

I've never found skeet skeet to be disgusting. Maybe I'm weird.

Peaches-n-Cream · #14 05-31-2004, 06:22 PM

^ WEIRD!

just kidding, lol

KSig RC · #15 05-31-2004, 08:14 PM

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Originally posted by erniegurl00
Yes, I think a lot of women are repulsed. Ugh I am.

So what is it about this that guys like???

it's hot b/c:

1.) i'm ejaculating. that's defined succinctly as "A Good Thing."

2.) it's something a little gauche, a little taboo - always A Good Thing.

3.) it's a pretty hot visual - remember, guys are decidedly more visual when it comes to sexual arousal/turn-ons

4.) you hate it, which makes me want to do it more (sex also has a brain-stem, primal component)

5.) it's something out of the ordinary - i know where it's 'supposed' to go, and i like that too, but variety is the spice of life.

Does that help? Now, sororitygirl2 and i have some business to tend to in the pantry, peace on out